my mother in law hate me because i do not want to help him
2006-07-11 03:29:41 · 8 answers · asked by elene c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you're right to not want to help him, he is in jail for a crime that a woman reported because it happened to her, if you help him by getting the money for bail, or paying for a lawyer, he could get out sooner and possibly harm someone else, family members will always take each others side because they want to see the best in the person and think they can do no wrong, but why doesn't his mother try to put up some money, this is family issue in which his family members should be dealing with, and while you did marry into the family it is really not your place to be giving him money for his bail, whether his mother hates you right now or not you did not put him there and he has to be accountable for his actions and the consequences that need to be faced, he needs to seek a lawyer who can work on his case and then speak to whomever is working on his case and tell them he is not guilty, but his mother shouldn't hate you because you have these feelings that you do want to help in this matter...
2006-07-11 03:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If people continue to help him, he won't learn to stand on his own. I told my children that if they ever break the law they are going to stay in there until their debt to society is paid. This means that they have to deal with Bubba and his twenty friends in the showers, learn to survive without help from the outside. They are too young to have done anything wrong yet, but they understand that there are consequences to their actions. This person in jail, is on his own and needs to learn to survive without outside intervention.
2006-07-11 10:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rape is very serious just imagine if it was your brother or sister it really hurts the person that he did it to and ther is way 2 much technology out there if he was proved guilty and u help him you r just as bad as he is!!
2006-07-11 10:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by heather w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!!!!! Don't help out a rapist! Send your money to the girl! And I agree F* your mother in law.
2006-07-11 10:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Hello A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to ask myself what if this was one of my children?You may not approve of what they done,they are going to do their time for it,if everyone turns their back on them when they get out they will be homeless and probably commit the same crime again.My advice is sure,help him out,maybe you are saving someone elses life from being destroyed by helping this person instead of hating them.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-11 13:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, That IDIOT choose to do the unthinkable. he choose his life. let him suffer. he has no values, he's a scum bag. do you even know how he effected that other person? that person is ruined for life because of his stupidity. let the moron suffer, He totally F***ed up someone elses life.DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR HIM!!! WHAT IF HE DID THAT TO YOUR MOTHER, OR SISTER, OR GRANDMA??? DON'T EVEN TALK TO THAT KIND OF SCUM. HE DESERVES EVERYTHING THAT HE HAS COMMING TO HIM. HE RUINED SOMEONE ELSES DEAR SWEET LIFE FOR GOOD.
2006-07-11 10:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did he do it? *** your mother in law. rape is a SERIOUS VIOLATION OF A CRIME COMMITTED TO ANOTHER HUMAN BEING! TELL HER THAT!
2006-07-11 10:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did it no DO NOT HELP. it is very serious.
2006-07-11 10:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by leigha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋