2006-07-11 03:02:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
yes we could, but it would be such a lonely existence there is no greater joy than knowing that at the end of the day there is always someone in your corner that you can count on, to help you unwind and share your burdens with
2006-07-11 03:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by playful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not necessary to marry. There are many other choices. And to avoid loneliness is a terrible reason to get married. Hasn't anyone realised that being with someone is not a cure for loneliness? Loneliness has to be understood not covered over in marriage, companionship, friends, etc. This is not to say not to have these relationships - they are vital - but what is going on has to be understood. When loneliness is understood, one can be alone, no problem.
"The married philosopher is a joke." Not my words!
2006-07-11 03:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by furthur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! People only marry because they enjoy being with a person emotionally and physically, plus they start an independent life detached from their parents, and follow in their steps.
If one can't envision themself with a life time partner, then they shouldn't get married. It's totally their choice, and by no means it the wrong thing to do.
2006-07-11 04:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love this person & want 2 be marry 2 them, Yes u should live together! Thats the point of marriage....is being with the one u love!
If u are not wanting 2 live with them, Then I don't think ur ready for marriage.
2006-07-11 03:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by fly_away_amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can live alone, and many people DO. The problem with humans is that they get lonely. It's a very personal choice.
2006-07-11 03:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry, Love, attachment are concepts. It is possible to live with someone without loving him. It is possible to Love someone without be Attached too much... It is possible to Marry someone without love and attachment. (better to have little love of course...).
But Human nature is to live with someone (not the same people for all the life but... to be with someone). This is because most people need someone, and seek him, this ideal man (or woman) that don't exist for all life time. Ideal is time limited, with our personnal evolution... It couldn't be the same at 15 year old, 25 yo, 45 yo and 60 yo... You can't find the Ideal people that will grow as you grow, change as you change, this is almost impossible...
to be able to be alone, is the best way to see if you are able to marry. Because, if you are able to live alone, you will not loose you independencies after marry. To keep yourself free you mustn't be Attached with someone !!! You can love him (her), pure and strong love, but never be attached. Keep yourself free. Don't accept your husband (wife) to drive your life, but better share your life together.
This is my point of view, strong love, freedom, don't need marry. But Marry need strong love, and freedom (to stay long time) (and not too much attachment...)
Have good life !!! take time to find the right solution (marry or not !!! answer is inside every one...)
2006-07-11 03:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by ffert2907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is up to your personal convictions. If you don't want to marry, then don't. There is no law that says you have to.
Marriage is the union of two people in love. It's not a prerequisite before death.
2006-07-11 04:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Erick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y NOT !
You sure could live alone and ENJOY it all along.
infact, that would be a FABULOUS GIFT into your life.
And when you are not married, u could nurse and nourish others with TRUE, GENUINE & AUTHENTIC UNIVERAL LOVE.
Gud Luck and Godspeed to you in this
2006-07-11 03:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by blessed_one_male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all.necessary.
but there seems that u r running away from something.so it is important that u understand that there is this urge in u to have raltions with the opposite sex...and dont feel shy abou ti...
u cannot suppress such urges...
foirget about marriage..just find aapartner and fullfill that urge of urs...
best of luck
2006-07-11 03:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by atulanand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are able to ignore a judgment initiated by others , then it would be the best desision of your life.
2006-07-11 04:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by Oleg B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋