my friend she is 8 and her brother is 13(my age)and tryes to finger **** her and his done it alot and i try to make him stop doing it to her i try telling her parents but they dont listen and now his been trying to make me kiss him and his tryes to **** me sometimes and i really dont want to go over their house any more because of it.but if i dont go i know his gonna try to do something to her during the day(he sleeps over at his brothers house during the night) and when i cant be over at their house i bring her with me so he wont touch her but he always gets his way so his parents let him come over my house and my parents let him be over our house and i also try telling my parents but they dont bealive eather.i tell his brothers and telling them something is like talking to wall paper because they wont listen eather.
what should i do?
2006-07-11 02:49:43 · 10 answers · asked by michell w 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
tell an adult like a teacher or conclor
my brother sexaul abused me and now i am scared for life
he can go to jail for alone time if u tell the right person
good luck
2006-07-11 03:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer K 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
This is a terrible situation to be in and it is wonderful that you are trying to help and protect your friend, BUT you can't do it all yourself. You did exactly the right thing going to her parents and your parents, but if they won't listen, you need to go to someone else. Do you or your friend have any other adults you can talk to? A minister or priest? A teacher? An aunt or uncle, cousin? Neighbor? This girl needs help and so does her brother, and the burden should not be all on you. Please keep telling people until you find someone who believes you, but don't take too long. Go straight to the police and tell them if that's what it takes. You've done all the right things so far but this should not be all your responsibility. You can't protect your friend and stop this young man yourself. This is a situation that NEEDS professional help. Good luck. I will pray for you.
2006-07-11 10:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by B D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't anyone believe you? If your parents don't believe you I think you should go to another adult and tell them. I realize school is out right now but a teacher is a good person to tell. This behavior is not ok and could lead to more serious things. My guess is the boy has had someone abuse him. Maybe that's why no one wants to listen. I'd tell someone of authority outside of your family and friends. I hope all works out well for you. I'll be praying.
2006-07-11 10:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him, he has some major issues, it doesn't matter how old or young he is, its still molestation. That boy needs some help, and you need to steer clear of him. I know its hard to do because of your friend, but you can't always protect her, just keep telling adults, eventually, some body will believe you, try telling a school counselor or a teacher. If nothing else works, call child protective services and make an anonymous call some one has to help you and your friend. He may be doing other things to her, or there may be other people in their family that are doing those things.
2006-07-11 09:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by bemassey2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to grab him by his privates mainly the sack, and then squeeze really hard. Tell here to imagine that she is crushing and egg in her hands.. while she is doing this she should yell NO MEANS NO!!! This should stop him from putting his hands where they don't belong... Also tell a grand-parent they seem to listen when parents don't. Don't worry about him fighting back, this move will pretty much make him as weak as a new born baby for about 15 minutes..
2006-07-11 10:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by southrngui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, that's a hard one!! There is lots of ways I can think of, and why does he finger his own sister, that's 8!!! Ask him is he crazy or an idiot or stuff like that. Or yell at your parents for not believing there own daughter. Or smack her brother or something, for doing it. Or do all 3.
2006-07-11 09:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him
kick him where "it hurts the most" if he tries it again
keep talking to your parents
if he tries this while your parents are at home...scream "rape" as loud as you can
tell the counselor at school or a teacher
he is one sick dude who must be stopped
2006-07-11 11:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices, leave it alone or report it to the police
2006-07-11 10:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Blind Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he tries to touch u, beat the $hit outta him, kick his crotch
2006-07-11 09:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by dyboy34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police right away....
2006-07-11 10:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by yiwei_tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋