i have seperated with my girlfrind but i want her back i have try everything possible to get her back but she has not reply me what should i do to get her back
2006-07-11 01:41:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Time to move on. She obviously is not interested.
2006-07-11 01:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think I am crazy. Stop pushing her away. Depending on what you did to her it is up to her to take you back. Try this. Stop calling, don't talk to her if you do make it real short. Blow her off if she comes around. They want what they cant have. Right now she still has you. She hasn't had time to miss you b/c you haven't gone anywhere. You are right they where she wants you. Give her time to miss you, If she loves or cares about you(depends on what you did) she will come back. You tell her you love her is the wrong thing to do right now. If you give her time she will and you will find out if she loves you or not. If she don't love you then you don't want to be with her. That will never work. Try a search on the Internet for how to put a relationship back together. Trust me it will work if she cares for you. Either way you will know how she feels. Good luck
2006-07-11 08:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I have to ask " What was the cause of separation ? " When you separate, that is exactly what it is. You sometimes have to give that someone space to decide if they may want to continue a relationship. Start enjoying your time, and not let that person know that you are ready to drop everything for her, cause if she knows that then it will be awhile before she comes back. Think about it when you know someone wants you , you take your own time to come back cause you figure that they will be there when ever you are ready. But if you show no interest then she will start to think harder about her next move.
2006-07-11 08:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you need to be asking ur self one question, if she isnt getting back to you, there is possibly one reason, she doent want you, u could also look back and ask urself y u finished with ur girlfriend in the first palce, or, did she cheat on u, did u cheat on her, who split with who??, there is also the possibility that she could be on holiday and thats y she isnt getting back to ur messages etc.. it is that time of year for people to go away, who knows she may of needed to get away for a while to get her head together, but if she split with u then she probably doenst want u back, its best then that u take the hint and try getting over her before u make ur self insane, its time to move on, there are plent of really nice girls out there, just keep looking, I wish u well.
2006-07-11 09:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by hotbabes_tracey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts but she has made her feelings clear. She does not want you anymore so save yourself the heartache and stop chasing her. Keep yourself busy, go out with your mates and have fun. You will get over her it just takes time. You can not make someone want you. You will meet someone else when the time is right. Good luck x
2006-07-11 08:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. You're lucky you have loads of girls to choose from. Thankfully there is not just one person for each of us on the face of this planet.
She obviously knows what she does and does not want. Sometimes we want something but the feeling is not always reciprocated. Take it as one of those things. It sucks that's for sure though.
2006-07-11 10:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we go through this? Leave just to come back?? Such a waste of time. You left for a reason, so move on. Unless you're old and you're restricted to one place, you should be "getting around"... she probably is..
2006-07-11 08:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably needs her space for a while.Give her some time to discover her feelings for you and let her contact you.She obviously knows how you feel about her ,wait.It's hard but what other choice do you have?If she wants you back she will get you back.
2006-07-11 08:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by ekiwendy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there might not be anything you can do... the thing is with girls once they make up their minds that it is over then it is over.. since she hasn't gotten back in touch with you yet then that maybe a sign that you are not gonna get her back.. you might want to just back-off for a little while.. wait a few days and then call her just to see how she's doing...Good Luck!!!
2006-07-11 08:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 3 billion other women in the world and a good portion are better than her. Move on.
2006-07-11 08:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let it go. If the person doesn't want you or to have anything to do with you, its over. Her not replying, may be her way of not wanting to hurt your feelings. You've done all you can. Now the ball is in her court.
2006-07-11 08:45:04 · answer #11 · answered by younggb77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋