My friend is 10 kilos overweight and she is conviced that she ll never find bf because of that. Is she right? What advice can i give her? Is it really like that?
2006-07-11 01:34:47 · 8 answers · asked by HarMonia 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
She may have a problem finding a boyfriend but NOT because shes overweight, but because shes so self conscience.
She needs to accept her body and be o.k. with how she is so that everyone else is too. If she is always saying that she's fat then everyone around her will think of her that way. If she just goes out and has a good time and doesn't think of her body image than others will just see her as a fun loving girl.
It's hard to accept yourself with the media always showing us heroine addicted models who think water is a main course as the perfect body image. Tell her to look around the real world (like shopping malls) and see how many wafer thin people are out there compared to the NORMAL people.
2006-07-11 03:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sensei Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is 10 kilos really that bad?
Clearly, she won't have a problem becuase of that. Even the most overweight individuals get b/fs sometimes. Most people find personality more important than looks. Then again, is 10 kilos really that much of a cause for concern?
What to tell her? Sounds like all she needs is a little confidence.
2006-07-11 08:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have seen lots of guys dating giant women. Size is not a big deal. And after age 20, looks don't really matters and it won't becomes the main reason to date a women.
I have this principle; you are pretty if you think you're pretty. And I'm 100% sure that it's right. So if your friend thinks she wouldn't get bf, she won't. Never. Trust me, I know.
So if she has time for complaining her size, it's better to use it to think positive. Trust me, she'll look much pretty even she's fat. Then boys will look after her.
2006-07-11 08:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was about 30 pounds overweight wehn i met my husband and he loved me like that. now i have another ten pounds from a baby so i have forty extra pounds in total and he says that he likes that there is something to grab onto. Tell your friend that every man is different and what they really are attracted to is confidence she needs to love herself and the rest will follow. tell her to email me if she wants some support. jessabear16@yahoo.com
2006-07-11 08:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by JLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can always diet if SHE WANTS TO . walk or jog every other day for 1/2 hr...
also, not all boys/men are that shallow. some actually judge a woman by her heart and her mind.
but, if the weight does bother her, she can take measures to reduce.
2006-07-11 08:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like your friend is real shallow and if you can't find someone to accept you for you then you don't need them, If she is a real friend she would say I can help you with your weight instead.
2006-07-11 08:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she is wrong men like girls in all different shapes and sizes most men love curvy full figured girls
2006-07-11 08:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by parisxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so, men like fat grils also. 10kg is a not a problem at all.
2006-07-11 09:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋