i just don't get it? why are some people popular and some not? i mean, im just in between but i don't get it how come some people just dont understand that some things are just annoying!!!!!!!!
2006-07-11 01:11:04 · 9 answers · asked by Lalilalila<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Popularity comes from self-confidence. Knowing that you look good makes you carry and act with confidence. People are attracted to someone who acts as if they have all the answers because most people are followers and not leaders.
2006-07-11 01:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think because people are afraid or forget how to be an individual.
Some people want to be liked so much they don't care by who or how they achieve this sensless goal. Self esteem is a big part of it and people forget they are each individuals and can be anything they want.
People are hearded the same as cattle, if you stop and think about it. We have lanes we can drive in (direction wise), we stand in line for most things. It's a never ending cycle.
But it is a wise question!! Just be the best you can, and love
yourself.
2006-07-11 01:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by american_angel068 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear little mind , some people do something very differently , other can not think or can do , what a popular person has done .
One need not to be jealous of other's achievement , go ahead and try something very differently , let people call you and shout , here you are , keep it up dear angel .
2006-07-11 01:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are leaders and followers there are people in life that are going to lead and of course there are others that are going to follow. I have been a leader all of my life I have always been very popular. I am outgoing and it does not take much for me to take control of something and people tend to go along with it.
2006-07-11 01:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the popular ones in school were the football players and the skank looking cheerleaders. I think because they all gather together and then walk around like they the ****. I wasn't popular, but then i was when i knocked out one of our football players, then I was an asshole cause i hit him, kids are weird.
2006-07-11 01:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Civilisation caused all this mess on popularity. Without civilization, popularity would be impossible....everyone fights to be on the top but no one will ever reach it.
2006-07-11 01:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Denis T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most people follow a herd like cows. That's why. Irks me too.
2006-07-11 01:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes some people are popular by there own decision self condifedence,accuracy,there own intesion
2006-07-11 01:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Sharath s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
popularity comes with your deeds....
2006-07-11 01:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by koogii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋