it upsets me so much.he says he want them to know me but yet when i ask to meet them he says im pushing him. what should i do??
2006-07-11 00:49:50 · 8 answers · asked by jenifer r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK...he has kids, which means that he is married (?), or has another woman who has his children (?) right? Honey, you are being played. He will never let them meet you cause it would mean that their Mama would know about you and he's not leaving her or his family. You ain't nuttin' but a bootie call for him. Stop calling him your boyfriend. Drop the man and get yourself a single guy. Leave that man alone and do another woman a favor, will you?
2006-07-11 00:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introducing you to his children is a huge step. Of course he wants to do it, but he also has to think of the children. When is a best time for them, how will they feel, that sort of thing. Maybe you should just give it a little more time before you start to panic. Or you can suggest ideas on when to meet them. For example, if he has a daughter, maybe you could come over for a tea party or something fun. That way she's automatically going to have fun...and associate you with that. : )
2006-07-11 07:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he Married? Is he affraid of what the ex will say about the relationship your in? Does he tell the other people in his life about you? (parents, siblings, friends, coworkers) Is ther someone else that he is involved with? Is he using you for...sex, money, to built up his ego? >>>How does he treat you? Is he kind, and caring? >>>>How does being with him make YOU feel Deep Down in Your Soul? If he makes you want to be a better person, toward not only him BUT TO YOURSELF!!!, hold on to him and give him time . If not your wasting your time, let him go.
2006-07-11 08:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jacqueline S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm do you think it is possible that he is still married, do you 2 live together? or dose he travel alot? My ant was in the same situation. This guy was married still. he was just using her for sex and a buddy. But after a year I would think something is fishy. from what you just said something is not right. your kids should be OK with dad dating, or say this is my friend? Go to his house and see. good luck.
2006-07-11 07:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by mike67333 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "you're pushing me" or "smothering me" is old.....he's not going to let you meet the kids. You've been together for one year? That is quite odd. He must still be married. He doesn't want the kids to tell mommy about you. Why?
2006-07-11 08:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is scared they may not like you and that will make you feel sad.Right now,I would advice you to let the relationship be between the two of you.You dont have to force him to introduce you to his kids.My wife now,introduced me to her kids earlier and they were cold towards me.I told my wife how uncomfortable I was. To me this shows that he loves you and he cares.Good luck
2006-07-11 07:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by titicaca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hiding something,or ashamed of you. Are you sure he isn't married? Are you sure he really has kids?
2006-07-11 09:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is hiding something move on.
2006-07-11 07:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋