-all puns intended. In all seriousness, suggestions for getting resolution on something.....
2006-07-10 23:38:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
(Mr. NightProwl. Go out and prowl. Jealousy will get you nowhere. and I killed my mummy, banged her over the head with my computer after I learned how to turn it on. See how easy it is to type on a keyboard?)
2006-07-11 00:47:53 · update #1
ALL JOKES ASIDE, I'm serious, I really would like some thoughts, opinions, regurgitations. I have been in my cave too long inhaling petrol fumes)
2006-07-11 00:49:51 · update #2
(Hey Dave, good to see you again. Killed anyone lately?)
2006-07-11 00:50:40 · update #3
(Hey jen, rubadubdub)
2006-07-11 00:51:17 · update #4
starrwood: something that needs resolution.
2006-07-12 17:24:14 · update #5
Pick them up one at a time and close them. Then stack them neatly and place them at the curb for the recycling man . You might want to bind them with a sturdy string so they are easier to carry.
2006-07-10 23:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Star of Florida 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make a list of all the issues you closure on. Then rank them in the order of importance that you would not like to work on. Take as much time as needed. Start with the first item on your list work through and think it through and do whatever you have to do to get closure. This is not something that will happen over night, it takes time and it could be a very painful for time for you.
Here is an example my father passed away and I have some issues with him. He has been dead 15 years and I need closure so I can forget the past and move. But still 15 years later I have not come up with the courage to once visit his grave and tell him he is forgiven and that no one is pefect. Untill I get closure on this I will never be able to stop reliving the bad memories. It has now been 15 years and I am getting very close to getting closure on this situation down so I can move on with my life. I am not saying your closure is going to take 15 years. It is just in my case I did not want closure I was not ready to move on and forgive him. I wanted to stay mad at him. In the fifteen years I not once been to his grave to visit or lay flowers. I do not even know where his tomb stone is or what it looks likes. I just know of the cemetary. In order for me to move on and have a more healthier relationship with my daughter who is 11 I have to forgive my father and once and for all have closure and move on with my life and make that a closed chapter in my life. It seems you have more then one issue you need closure on. take things slow and only work on one at a time and if takes five six years so be it. You were strong enough to come on here to ask for help so you are strong enough to work through this. and if you ever want to talk or anything send me a message. You said you do not want it to be from the lid of the coffin. Well I waited tilll it was to late.
2006-07-11 06:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whaaat, you call that a question. Go away.
See how easy it is to type on a keyboard.
I've got a question for you: Are you a little kid whose mummy has gone out and youve finally managed to figure out how to turn the computer on?
2006-07-11 07:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
closure.....hmmm....hard one..
your choice to deal with the problem...and move on, to leave it in the past, as something to learn from...
first address the problem, at it's source...
then prepare a plan that will lead to NO REGRETS...
don't burn the bridge if it just needs re-built...
but burn it, if it will allow "an enemy" access to a "tender" spot again..
closure is personal, sometimes, you never get complete resolution...{because the other party may not comply}...you have to find it in yourself, to either forgive another, or harder still, forgive yourself.....forgive doesn't always equal forget...
some tid-bits from others to inspire your thinking process
Problems cannot be solved by the same level of thinking that created them.
—Albert Einstein
Never solve a problem from its original perspective.
—Charles "Chic" Thompson
Self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings.
—Samuel Johnson
Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.
—Oscar Wilde
Our deeds determine us, as much as we determine our deeds.
—George Eliot
Don't argue for other people's weaknesses. Don't argue for your own. When you make a mistake, admit it, correct it, and learn from it -- immediately.
Stephen R. Covey
and the one i choose to live life by...
2006-07-11 15:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by sparkalittlefire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Petrol fumes, huh. You peaked my curiosity. Maybe, you should get out of the cave, go outside to play. (always watch for splinters)
2006-07-11 18:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by jaded 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the truth and move on.
You will never be as cool as Yahoo! Answerer kolacky.
2006-07-11 06:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion is to join the Koresh cult Orgone Knights
2006-07-11 06:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok don't leave us hanging resolution to what and how can we assist? ~A~
"Curiosity did not kill the cat,the cat killed the mouse, curiously."
"pass the pun"
2006-07-11 06:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
glub glub
2006-07-11 06:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Adalina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would you like to be resolved?
2006-07-11 06:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋