2006-07-10 23:24:22 · 10 answers · asked by wonderworld 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't give her any fuel for the fire. Don't tell her about any troubles you maybe having with your husband, because most likely you forget to tell her about the making up. And most people
hear only bad stuff about the other person, and judge them on what you have said.
If you want be her friend but set boundries.
Good Luck
2006-07-10 23:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by american_angel068 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to back off. No offense but friends can get a little out of hand when they think they are right about something. My ex-best friend would stop at NOTHING to make sure I saw that she was right and I was wrong, no matter the subject. It really is none of her business what you do with your life. Remind her of that in a nice way and I'm sure if she's as good as a friend as you say, she'll understand.
2006-07-10 23:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jen, i'm sorry which you have self belief that speaking approximately your intercourse life along with your human beings is a healthful component to do. you have graduated from severe college and school which only skill that the days of sharing this form of education is long long gone (actual by no skill could have been started interior the 1st place). I had the unlucky adventure of having considered one of my girlfriends who lost her husband as a results of fact she did the final comparable component. do no longer do it. Your life is working for you. no you are able to truly make your intercourse life greater effective yet you (privately gaining knowledge of from different components the thank you to make it greater effective). refrain from sharing intimate info with everyone different than a counselor if that ever turns into mandatory (with a bit of luck no such component will ever be required for you). bypass away your life in place as you have it now. once you opt to alter, enable that is as a results of fact situations interior your marriage dictate such and luxuriate interior the invention jointly, outdoors the impression of your human beings. each and every of the final Jen to you and your husband.
2016-12-10 04:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shunning or judging is a form of trying to control someone. It is a low tactic. Old people use it a lot I have just found lately. What a weak ploy. She feels inferior or jealous of something and insecure so she or he is obliquely trying to gain power by putting you on the defensive and making you feel like you have something to explain. Tell her to F off.
My neighbor is like this . . .Anything you say and she tries to act like it's sillly . . .even a comment on the weather . . .or like she can't hear you all the way . . .so repeat? repeat? and then she kind of giggles and nods or makes a bit of a face . . .and I just feel like she's lucky I even talk to her . . and here she has to grab onto it as an opportunity to make me repeat myself and then disparage even the smallest comment and act like everything I say is silly. I'm like Oh Ok I don't need to bother to relate to you at all then you dumb old fool. Good luck living in complete solitude rotting in your shitty little apt. then you dumb old F*ck.
I mean come on it is a F'in GIFT (to you) for me to talk to you !
2006-07-10 23:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to have a chat with her about this? Maybe there is something bothering her. Maybe she's concerned about something. If you've been friends for a long time it's worth investigating a bit.
2006-07-10 23:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by SweetyPie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your good friend is in love with you, and cant stand the thought that you might be marrying someone else so he is trying to ruin it. You might want to look at what you might have missed about this 'friendship'..
2006-07-10 23:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good friend never pries or becomes judgemental about your life.
they stick by you no matter what.
tell your friend that if he/she cannot be supportive to you and the decisions you have made in life then he/she will lose you as a friend
2006-07-10 23:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to get a new friend
2006-07-10 23:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont follow his or her instructions purposely so that they'll get to know what their limits are. Dont let anybody to dominate you. Even your best friend.
2006-07-10 23:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by thrillerboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to dump her.
2006-07-10 23:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋