I had this friend for nearly two years. Recently we went out more often and i felt for him. I told him that and he told me that he also has feelings about me...But here this now.Two weeks later he told me that he is married and his marriage is broken..my god i felt as if my entire world crashed down. MOreover my feelings are very strong at this moment of time. I am so depressed. Why are guys like that? Please help me and advise
2006-07-10 22:42:21 · 8 answers · asked by nsms 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Can i ever trust a guy again? I am really damn hurt by this situation. It is so terrible.
2006-07-10 22:49:52 · update #1
I am from Germany...not india or us
2006-07-10 23:52:52 · update #2
Just stay away from him, usually that`s a kind of men trick to get a woman, by simpaty, so dont let yourselves being enfluenced by him. If he really a good guy, then he will overcome his merried first than hangin` around with other girl. Lucky for you knowing that before too late, before fallen in to him too deep and marry him.
Dear Friend, believe me not all Men like that, you`ll heal soon and find your own soul-mate. Dont let him crushin` your life for further ya. By gone let it be by gone, open a new days, I know it is not easy, but I do believe you can do that as long as you really want to
2006-07-10 23:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its very complicated. Since 2 years you've been in touch with him and he never said a word about his marriage. Where are you from? Are you from India or US where dating and sex is common. If you are from India where girls are more conservative, this needs investigation. You find out for how long your friend has been cheating you. Did you have sex with him in your recent outings? What does he mean by saying his marriage is broken? Is he divorced or just staying away from his wife? What are his future plans with you. You have to sit together and get all this info sorted out neatly. Then only you will arrive at a picture about his clear intentions. Be honest with each other. No use crying about spilt milk. Let bygones be bygones. Think of the future. If you find him sincere in all his info, let him have a second chance. Otherwise, dump him. Give yourself some time. Involve yourself in some social or cultural activities and forget about the past and present. After some time you can make a fresh beginning. After all, this is not the end of the world.
2006-07-10 23:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know more about this guy. If he did not tell you all the while that he was married then there is a problem. Another thing is that the marriage may have crashed even before you started dating. But I will say the fault is more of yours. Try to see beyond your nose, what you need to do is to sit down together and try to figure things out. Ask questions and make sure you get the truth out of him.
However, not all guys are like that. A man is a man, a race is a race. He can not represent the whole of guys race. You are the one to redefine your horizon.
Good luck.
2006-07-10 23:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the Initial stage of your Friendship he was a bit confused about you and your Faith about him..but love and Emotions both were growing..slowly slowly. but when u realised that u both are in a Relationship,may be he felt something guilt then he told u about his previous personal life..but that time u were an Open Book for him..it happens when u get confused about a relationship but the good thing is that now he is shareing something with you..I feel that the most Important Role in Friendship and Love is to-Faith and be Faithful..now its up to you what type of person he is..
2006-07-10 22:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Visshal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 01:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by braye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like this guy would try anything to be with you but you should be careful he is not lying to you about a broken marriage just to have his way with you.As you are very vunerable at this time he may use that just to get what he wants. the best thing you could do is either ask his wife or talk to some people that he knows.that way your heart will not be broken.
2006-07-10 22:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should trust a guy again but next time be more carefull
and don t be so lonely like the world will crushed down(guguho ang mundo?)there are lots of guys out there you shound t just give up
2006-07-10 22:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by omgGUESSwho? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are stupid. Honestly, we suck.
2006-07-10 22:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋