I'm 13, female. My cousin is 16. He currently lives in our house because our house is nearer to his school, he is a college student.
2006-07-10 22:36:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dangerous age difference there, but then again, it's nothing but a number.
It's entirely up to you, and you alone, so don't let anyone force their opinions of it on you. You'll get a lot of people answering this question with how sick it is and how you'll go to hell. Ignore the religious zealots and make the choice for yourself with an open mind.
A few general tips if you're uncertain, however, is to avoid doing anything if you're uncertain or uncomfortable. Things can't be undone, so it's a good idea to wait until you -know- that it's what you want. If you do go through with it, remember to take precautions. No matter how open your mind is to these things, it won't open the minds of others, and the consequences of your actions can be very serious.
Do what you feel is right. Good luck.
2006-07-10 22:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mikkel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although one usually outgrows crushes, there is still that danger of a relationship developing when two people are often together, specially when they are living in the same house. If you are first cousins, then a love relationship is out of the question, it's morally wrong, and in most countries, this is against the law.
2006-07-10 22:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by lovebug2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear little angel , how come this type of feeling or idea come to your innocent mind , first cousin is your absolutely brother , and brother should be respected that way , and most important for you to concentrate on your studies , you will have plenty & handsome boy swearing for you , just wait for another 6 years . Study hard get good marks , should be your priority .
2006-07-10 22:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its just a phase that ur going through.. my cousin used to have a huge crush on me too.. but like i said, its just a phase. u having a crush on your cousin is due to the fact that he's close by and u can see him almost everyday, once u've met someone else, this crush u have on your cousin will be something to look back on and laugh
2006-07-10 22:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice you have a good looking cousin, but how gross to have a crush on him. Get a boyfriend who is not related to you.
2006-07-10 22:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by 30somethingfemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what part of arkansas are you from? find a 14 or 15 year old neighbor boy who isn't related to you. hold hands with him for 3 or 4 years.
2006-07-10 22:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the word incest. Well its a sin. Your cousin is like practically your brother. Would you consider dating your brother if you have/had one?
2006-07-10 22:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is 16 and goes to college? anyways forget it,,you are way to young to worry about him,,enjoy being a kid
2006-07-10 22:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by tanker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even go there he is your cousin
2006-07-10 22:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's a 1st cousin,forget it , if hes distant..go for it.but then again you're too young!
2006-07-10 22:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by kevin z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋