my brothers girlfreind is sooo hitting on me she even tried to kiss me damn im pissed i got no idea wut to do should i tell my brother or should i leave it alone and let him find out for him self cuz know that if i tell him he will get pissed the **** off!! cuz he is upsest with her he can never stop thinking about her. i need an anwer.
2006-07-10 22:15:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to tell him because if you don't and then he finds out he will be seriously pissed at you for keeping it from him. Good luck.
2006-07-10 22:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times we have been told that blood is thicker than water; unfortunately that is just not always true, especially when we are blinded by love and obsession...The thing I worry about is if he is as obsessed with her as you make it sound, then she might say you were the one coming on to her...but I guess the best thing to do is just put yourself in his shoes and think about what you would do in the same situation if it was your brother and your girlfriend...surely you've been hung up on someone before...make sure that you distance yourself from her when possible...you are brothers and you do know each other a lot more than you think you do...go with your gut, I'm more than sure you will make the right decision...just remember, even when you've made the right decision - it doesn't mean there will be no pain during the healing process...best of luck to you and your brother...I certainly hope everything works out for you...
2006-07-11 05:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd talk to her and tell her that I'm not interested and that it should never happen again. Wether or not you tell him depends on your relationship with him. If the relationship is good and he'll believe you and appreciate you telling him the truth even when it hurst then I would tell him. If your relatioship is not that good then I would not tell him cause he will probably not believe you anyway. If you choose not to tell him you must NEVER mention it. I found out years after I left my ex that ALL my friends knew he was cheating but no-one said a thing. I would rather not have known this. It was a double whammy. So if you are silent now you must be prepared to stay silent forever.
2006-07-11 05:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by SweetyPie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that the next time she hits on you, you will tell your brother. That is, forewarn her, and give her the choice whether to do it again or not, considering the possible consequences. If she hits on you again after you've warned her, you have no other choice but to tell your brother, or else you will have no credibility with this girl/women anymore.
Your brother deserves to know. He'll find out eventually that his girl is unfaithful, but it might take a few years. You'll be doing him a favor by clueing him in ASAP. He doesn't need that crap. Neither do you.
2006-07-11 05:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Gestalt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get caught alone with her. Tell your mum. Don't care how old you are but you will need back up to support your story that you are not the one causing the problem. Your brother won't be happy. Your mum will have a view about it. She might be the best way to go. .... Then again if the girl is hitting on you, who else might she be hitting on? Your brother might catch her with someone else first.... I'd tell SOMEONE in the circle.
2006-07-11 05:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sue W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your brother because this is important..she obviously cant be trusted and you need to protect your brother from her since you already what kind of person she is..be honest with him and tell him the truth .. tell him you care for him and thats why you are telling him and the only thing you will gain from telling him is his happiness.. Dont let him live in ignorance.. he doesnt desrve this and he should leave this girl asap since she is not the right one for him..If you don't tell him now then you will regret later and it will certainly be much harder for him to break up with her if things get serious ..
2006-07-11 05:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a couple of weeks, if she still persists, then you have no choice but to tell him. You do not want him to find out the hard way, if he does, he will surely be pissed at you to the extent that could threaten your relationship.
It is the way you tell him that matters, don't just go in and tell him, hey bro, your g.f wants to sleep with me. Position it as a discussion that is for his own benefit and that he does not want to be with such a *****.
2006-07-11 05:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by fozio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. There lots of girls and lots of opportunities for kisses, but you only have one brother. This girl sounds like a trouble maker, but I wouldn't say anything negative about her to your brother. Why buy a headache? He will find out on his own soon enough. Avoid being in a situation where she can put any moves on you.
2006-07-11 05:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Its better that you tell all this to him than wait and let him caught you both. Its a total war. Be nice to your brother.
2006-07-11 05:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by Amani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a good brother and TELL HIM! Put yourself in his shoes. Don't worry about how much it will hurt him; you need to always look out for your family.
2006-07-11 05:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋