My first love is back on the scene. It's been 9 years since we've been togather, but our conversation is just like when we were younger. I still have feelings for this guy, and he also told me that I was his first, and that he still loves me. I still talk to my son's father, but that's on the rocks. What should I do, try it out, or leave it alone?
2006-07-10 22:11:23 · 6 answers · asked by JUICY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
U are married already and had kid also?! Then what's the point of confused? The 1st Love can never be your true love(in 99% cases) and u can only place him in your deepest memory. 9 yrs is not really long, i have not seen my 1st love for 6 yrs and i'm only 21, what do u think? After i'm married, it will be 11 yrs i didn't see him and even he appears then, what can he change anyway?
If u really think that your husband is who u have been waiting for and you are treasuring your family and happiness, there is no point of thinking of him anymore. Even u have feeling for him, it was your feeling when u had for him 9 yrs ago.. Don't get confused. Just ignore and tell him that U ARE MARRIED AND HAD KID. U ONLY CAN BE FRIENDS. THat's it. Make it clear. If he still want to have anything more, tell your husband that a man is trying to harrass u
2006-07-10 22:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as neither of you are involved with anyone right now, you should go for it. If you are not involved with your son's father or neither of you two have feelings for each other, it would be alright. Obviously, for you son's sake, I wouldn't break ties with his father though. At the least, you two could become friends first (again) and wait and see where it leads; you wouldn't need to jump into a relationship with him right away. Good Luck! :)
2006-07-10 22:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by justagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a 2 365 days relationship, and im positive he left me for someone else. He has blocked me out of his existence. Its been virtually a 365 days because the chop up and that i hate him somewhat now. And hes not basic to examine. We were eachothers first and hence I wont ever thoroughly ignore him as a lot as i'd like too. i understand it sounds tacky hun yet pay interest to adeles version of " I cant make you want me" when I heard that music it helped me to open up and flow on somewhat. and look at to understand that if thats how he is going to be than hes no longer properly worth it. imagine about it, in case you and him dated back may you no longer concern the completed time that hed do all of it back. you pick someone whos committed, someone who doesnt walk away. in case you pick someone to communicate too purely proceed to message me. in case you dont understand how purely remark decrease back in this and sick message you.
2016-12-01 01:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there myself and believe me you really need to get your priorities in tact other wise you could be making the best or the worst mistake of your life. the only true way to know is to follow your own heart .
2006-07-10 22:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if things havent changed in 9 YEARS, then he hasn't grown up and neither have you!!!!!!! first loves are just that - THE FIRST....doesn't mean the best...what have you got to compare them to --NOTHING
2006-07-10 22:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up your mind of who you feel what for,tell the people inviolved how you feel ,and be with the person you love.
2006-07-10 22:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋