how to get wife to have sex with another man?

Question

we have had threesome but i would like to sit back and watch her being pleased.

Answer 1

You cannot "get" her to do this... it must be something she wants to do. And what you want is NOT to "sit back and watch her being pleased". What you want is for her to put on a sexual performance for your entertainment. Call it like it is. And when she is done remember to put a $20 on the bedside table like you would for any other tramp. For you have taken her from wife to whore.

Answer 2

Wow this is a huge bomb that your wife let go on you! She should have never told you. I'm not saying that to be mean but the truth is - she got drunk and made a bad decision ONCE with another man. It's not someone she loved or was having an affair with. It was a drunken mistake. Only you can decide in your heart if you can forgive what she has done. The two of you seriously need to sit down and talk through this now she has let this out. There is nothing else to do. If you want to save the marriage then maybe get into counseling. I think if you truly love her then you need to do what ever it takes to forgive her and move on. But you need to forgive. This is not something that can keep being brought up over the years time and time again. Good Luck!

Answer 3

You have reached an all time low in your life of sin. And to top it off you are causing others to sin.

You can still repent and turn your life around but it won't be easy because It doesn't sound like you have much to build on.

You don't respect yourself or others. You don't respect God. You are a slave to lust and you don't have control of your life. Why do you let sex rule over you? Were you abused at a young age? Did someone take you to x rated shows or give you magazines when you were very young. Something like that can work on your mind and cause your extreme low value system.

Please get some help. It's not OK to live the way you are and at the end if you keep on going in this direction, You will wonder what life is about anyhow. Furthermore, if you don't stop and repent before you get hit by a truck or something, you'll have an eternity to realise what is wrong with your life.

God Bless You and guide you,
You can still turn back to God.
Please don't continue in your rebelliousness.
The Clock is ticking.
What will God have to do to get your attention?

Answer 4

Apparently you did the threesome because you needed to kick your sex life up a notch...now you want to watch her with another man...then what? Are you going to just sit there quietly while she responds to another man's hands, mouth, and body, or are you going to direct the scene as though you are detached from your wife? This will not nurture your marriage, but that's not your aim anyway. Do you know or care how your wife feels about any of this? Have you talked to her, or are you just plotting on how to manipulate her into agreeing? Where are the real men in this world?

Answer 5

Well now... Since you've obviously got an open marriage and already had a threesome, I suppose telling her outright what you'd enjoy seeing is reasonable. Are you sure you're not actually working your way to wanting her to watch you being pleased by another woman at some point? Be very careful what you wish for. These sort of games have a way of coming back to haunt you.

Answer 6

If you want her to have sex with another man, then I would suggest you divorce her and give her the freedom to choose.

Three-ways does NOT a marriage make.

Men tend to be "Visually" oriented when it comes to stimulation. Either ask your wife to "please herself" in front of you, or find MEDIA that would arouse your appetites.

It wouldn't be fair to your wife or you to have an interloper come in and bring additional problems in (Like STDs, Disturbed People, or Cons)

If these answers don't satisfy you, then I suggest you get some sex counseling.

Answer 7

you have major problems dude, you think thats cool?
marriage is just you and your wife, apparently you want
a divorce, i guarantee that stuff doesnt make anybody happy
ultimately, your flirting with disaster my friend, been there done that, it wont matter, she'll still leave you no matter how exciting and interesting you try to be for her, its never enuff,,,,,your blowing it,,,,,you and her alone in the bedroom should be enuff for ya'll, if not why bother being married, may as well divorce and have an open relationship, your seriously nuts........you have a void in your life and marriage and that void can only be filled with the love of christ! God makes you with a G spot, thats the God spot, fill it with the word, your trying to fill a void with the wrong thing!!!!!!!!!take care

Answer 8

Actually, there are thousands and thousands of couples who enjoy making love in the presence of others. And there are many who would pay to watch them make love.
We are a couple who are willing to make love in the presence of another, for a fee. But with stipulatons...no sex with the one watching. The other person pleases themself while watching.
If you are in Utah, then contact us and we can then talk about the details.
(nothing freaky, only one person or another couple can be present, absolutly no sex with us, and a few others...)

Answer 9

So, you are tired of Pornos, and want to see your wife make love to another man instead, because you want her involved with your sick twisted minds way of justifying your life, eh?

Do her a favor and get into counceling before you wreck your already weird marriage, and you have your wife pick up some kind of sexual disease, along with your sexual fantasies...

You really need help!

I wish you well..

Jesse

Answer 10

Think about what you are saying. Also, that other person above this answer said it the way it is. "Keep talking about it and before you know it she'll be doing it. With or without your involvement."

This is a new age of mankind. Adultery is not only accepted, but it is also a PROTECTED RIGHT these days. Pull your head from your @$$.