Ever fall in love with someone you had no business falling in love with? Ever throw yourself headlong into a doomed relationship? Ever realize, consciously, that it just can't work, and still want more than anything to find a way to make it work? Ever have a really stubborn romantic heart that just won't stop having feelings it has no business feeling? Any anecdotes or advice would be appreciated.
2006-07-10 21:02:07 · 10 answers · asked by I Know Nuttin 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are many reasons why people stay in doomed relationships. Sometimes it's the fear of being alone, or not wanting to "give up." But at the same time you need to know when to throw in the towel. Otherwise you'll only be causing yourself and your loved one more pain in the long run. God knows you can't control your feelings. Especially if you are a hopeless romantic. But you can control your actions. If you truly care about this person, leave no stone unturned. Try talking it out, or going to counseling, or giving yourselves some more time. If none of this works, be graceful about it and let her go. I believe that true love should feel right with every bone in your body. The longer you stay in something that you're not 100% sure about, the more time you take away from the person out there who is right for you.
2006-07-10 21:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
True love is an amazing emotion and feeling. To love as deeply as you do, don't second guess it. I think many people at some point especially during a disagreement or misunderstanding ask this question.Still they know, they would do it all over again. Relationships take work, and always thinking about the other persons feelings. It takes patience,understanding and talking things through. There will be little bumps in the road, but true love will work through them. It has become too easy for people to leave,instead of staying and fighting for love. This is in relationships and marriages. If you love her,you'll stay and work things out. No one said love is easy. I've actually heard the same words you have written. Look inward. Could it be perhaps that you are the one wanting out? You used the words no business falling in love with, and no business feeling. Love conquers all. You didn't say,so I'll ask. Does the woman love you too? Talk to each other, calmly. I wish you all the best!!!! There are two sides to every story and relationship.
2006-07-11 04:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....You've just described my life! I sometimes think all those things but my heart will not allow me to let go. I don't know if it will ever work but I must keep thinking that someway...somehow...someday.... it will work out! What seems impossible today may not be tomorrow...Keep the faith and best of luck to you!
2006-07-11 19:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help who you love even if it is doomed better to have loved then to have never loved at all
2006-07-11 04:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it feels worse than loneliness and heartbreak combined.
2006-07-11 06:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by ddesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should fall in love when u r in love!!
2006-07-11 04:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel in love with someone i shouldent have
2006-07-11 04:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by jamesthehotcheeto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER BROTHER IT WOULD RUIN YOUR LIFE YOUR CARRER AND EVERYTHING ELSE.....TRUST ME
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2006-07-11 04:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love wins K.I.S.S. keep it simple simon
2006-07-11 15:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Spock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i realize more and more..that this is my ill fate purpose..
2006-07-11 04:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋