how long after a separation is it ok to start dating and should i wait till after divorce even tho we both dated during marriage yea cheaters we are,but only after i knew he did. some how made it easier and he did it alot. i do it and fall for another every time am i crazy or what every time meaning 2 times and we were separated at those times. and yes feelings were involved in both cases.
2006-07-10 20:58:49 · 8 answers · asked by mara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all if you are going to cheat you shouldn't let your emotions get involved. If you have a man at home, you need to keep it strictly physical. But now that you are getting the divorce, I would wait until it is completely over, not for him but for you.. You need to go to a counselor and discuss why you get so emotionally attatched so quickly, that is not healthy. I don't think you so much want to be in a relationship, it is just that you don't want to be alone. Sometimes being alone and doing some soul searching is better.
2006-07-10 21:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were there "feelings for the men" or "feelings for yourself" involved? What I mean is, did you "cheat" because you were uncontrollably attracted to the other men or because you felt as if your husband did not want you and at least these other guys wanted you?
Answer those questions and you'll have the answers you need to move forward in any direction.
2006-07-11 04:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dun think there is a time limit when u r divorced
yeah u r a cheater there is no reason for cheatin u have just gave him the right to forgive him self so no not before divorce but any time after it sorry truth hurts but its is the truth!
2006-07-11 04:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait its over, just move on with your life. No matter if start now or later you still getting divorced so go on.
2006-07-11 04:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holla at me ill give ya some loving baby. lol. Go get ya some.
2006-07-11 04:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by jliljay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feel you need to have another partner in yr life.
2006-07-11 04:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until it's FINAL . durr
2006-07-11 04:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you don't have to ask
2006-07-11 04:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋