your parents (or both of yours) object to the marriage - they are absolutely, stubbornly firm about it & are not willing to listen to you anymore. What will you do?
2006-07-10 20:53:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They must know something u dont. I recommend long engagement. If it's love, no rush for a piece of paper - Right?
2006-07-10 20:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phoenix_svce, your parents will get mad no matter what. It will take them time to heal but they will! They love you unconditionally so they will get over it eventually. If they are making it hard for you to get married then don't invite them. Being part of your wedding is a privilege, even to parents. Last resort, have a small (only friends) wedding, sort of like a dinner party =o) I've been to a few like that, and actually have more fun at those weddings because the bride and groom are so relaxed!
-Morena
2006-07-11 03:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by MORENITA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE ONLY PERSON THAT CAN MAKE THAT DESICION IS YOU.... THIS IS MY OPINION YOU ARE AN ADULT AND ADULTS MAKE DECISIONS ON THIER OWN... IF YOUR PARENTS DO NOT LIKE TOUGH THEY DO NOT HAVE TO LIVE IN YOUR HOME THEY DO NOT HAVE TO COME A VISIT... SPEND THAT EXTRA TIME WITH YOUR WIFE... THAT'S RIGHT IF YOU LOVE THAT WOMAN MARRY HER... YOU CAN NOT SPEND YOUR LIFE TRYING TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY AT THE COST OF YOUR OWN HAPPINESS.... THE ONLY OUTCOME THERE IS YOU WILL GROW OLD AND BITTER BECAUSE YOU ALLOWED OTHERS TO CONTROL YOUR LIFE INSTEAD OF LIVING IT HOW YOU SEE FIT... I RECOMMEND THAT IF SHE IS NOT A DRUG ADDICT, ALCOHOLIC, OR PROSTITUE.... DO WHAT YOU FEEL IN YOUR HEART... YOUR FAMILY MAY NOT SEE WHAT YOU SEE RIGHT NOW BUT EVENTUALLY THEY WILL COME AROUND... PRAY ABOUT IT.... GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS....
2006-07-11 04:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by rawdawgsgo_hard2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have probably seen more and done more than you have. They might know something you don't know. I grew up in a family where my aunts, uncles, and grandparents were out of contact with me and my siblings. That was very difficult growing up with just your parents and brothers. Thirty years later, they still won't talk to us. Don't be selfish, be open minded. Talk with your parents and RESPOND to their concerns not react.
2006-07-11 04:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Cheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life. Don't let people decide your future.
If you're in the right age and you love each other, fight for the love and prove to your parents that marrying is really worth it.
2006-07-11 03:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by czaroma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her anyways, There comes a point in life where the umbillical cord needs to be cut from your parents. You cant have them making all of you decesions for the rest of your life,
2006-07-11 03:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Zach's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourselves...Tell them this is your time to be married and they will just have to sit and be quiet,,,They had their turn at marriage now it's your turn....Besides we all have to learn by our own mistakes and no I am not saying getting married is a mistake
2006-07-11 03:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love each that much just elope, they cant make get divorce when you come back. Start your own family just the two of you & make your family grow. Hope I was helpful
2006-07-11 03:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the one who has to be with the one I marry, not my parents. If my parents raised me to have good judgement they should trust who I pick out.
2006-07-11 03:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by tortasinqueso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the parents to take a long walk off a short pier at the reception. when they swim back , thell them it is your lives and if they dont like it they can take a royal hike.
2006-07-11 03:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by Iowa Crossing Guard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋