2006-07-10 20:51:40 · 8 answers · asked by Aby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The process is gradual and it is also up to you, your experiences, your willingness to survive the relationship and whether you learn to understand the concept of living minute by minute. The process is scary and certainly not fun. But, unless you really try too hard to hold on to what no longer is, one day you will suddenly realise, "Hey, I'm not as torn up as I was initially," or you'll chuckle, shake your head and realise that we often worry about the future because it is uncertain but most of our worries are imaginative and over-rated.
One last bit of advice: don't try to rush the healing process or you'll frustrate yourself daily when you wake up and find you still have that yearning for that person. Deal with this minute and in the next minute, deal with that. When you are happy, enjoy it and embrace it. When you are sad, accept that the moment of sadness came but don't hate yourself for still loving that person who has seemed to move on more easily than you have.
2006-07-10 21:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Unsilent Observer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You first make sure that the only option left for you is breaking up!
Then you think of every good time that has happened with this person. Let this person know that this is still the way that you feel. If you can, try to keep this person in your life, for as long as you can handle it.
If the Love that you feel is that strong, and you truly are an Adult, then having that person in your life, even for a small amount, should keep you feeling somewhat better about a break-up!
Just try and remember, a little Love in your life is better than no Love.
I know this is not much, and may not make any sence to you, but I truly hope this helps, even if only a small bit. GOOD-LUCK!!!
2006-07-14 20:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by papadude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is actual love then the different females shouldn't remember you mustn't worry about them. My fiance and that i have been together for 4 years now on and stale thorough some quite not basic circumstances yet she became there its were given to be 50/50 or it purely wont artwork
2016-12-01 01:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by fellman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Just remember one thing... "this too shall pass".
It will. Be strong. Seek help from friends and family. Have them around you. Involve yourself in activities that make you feel good abt yourself. Remember, you'll be fine eventually.
2006-07-10 21:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey abir! i am in the same situation you are in now,what i am going to do is focus on the things i need to focus on more,like,getting my associates degree in hotel/resturant management,taking up a hobbie that i enjoy doing,meeting new people and try to do things for me for a chance maybe you can do the same,it,ll not only give you time to focus you would feel as though you really don,t need them in your life,if you can,t be with the one you love,love the one you are with....
2006-07-10 21:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by 0samaria s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it always seems like you will never get over it now but just give time & take good care of yourself eventually you wil regain yourself again. Good luck
2006-07-10 20:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about his/her bad habit. or try to make another great relationship with other. maybe u will find your other love.
who knows..??
2006-07-10 21:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by redstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time time and time. How you forget yr beloved who died? just spend more time
2006-07-10 20:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋