me and my Ex broyfriend broke up last year, we still communicate,i dont know if he still likes me, but i just have difficulties getting over him. I met him yesterday only to tell he has a new girlfriend. What do i do if i still feel for him?
2006-07-10 20:07:50 · 18 answers · asked by Yaz1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u have to stay away from him dun just meet and phone calls all the time soon or later he will ask u to stay away cuz it hurts his gf u have to belive u r not his gf any more and u wont be again so just find somthing he left at ur place break it it will feel good then start ating again but not only cuz of him no do it cuz ur startin a new life
good luck!
2006-07-10 20:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
Make sure you talk to him still be friends.UM MM ask hi him do stuff with you.But make sure to him that all you want at this time is to be friend nothing else.Think of all the good times you had with him.And if you feel that you want to be with him again and he still mean worth your while go for it again but if he still likes you he should say yes.But if you go for it and get turned down that happens and once your done with him.I don't think there's a way again to be with him.You need to understand it done and you can't change anything you have said or did.And you life has now just stepped another step higher.And life isn't easy at all you have so bumps now & then.But you always seem to find a way though it.It might take a ling while to recover like a broken knee but it heels.It might not heal fast or it might heel fast.But hang in there and if your lucky and want him back there's a fairy in every corner waiting to grant a wish.
Thanks
2006-07-11 03:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality is it will continue to hurt for a while but if you keep your mind busy with other things, then you will find yourself slowly recovering from the pain. Enjoy and learn a new sport, get involved in community service, study, go out with your friends and date again. I think if you keep yourself busy, the pain becomes less and less. What if you still feel for him? Well, the feeling will stay there for a while, but you know, it is also good to let him go and move on yourself. If you are meant to be together, he will come back. If you are not, then it was never meant to be. Regardless of what the future might bring, move on and learn to love again.
2006-07-11 03:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by MARIE A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont mean to sound like a God botherer but firstly, try to forgive yourselves for whatever happened, very hard i know!!!
Secondly, he's moved on regardless if he likes you or not so try to be happy for him, getting even harder ???!!!
Last, dont take shortcuts in the healing process ie jumping on the next available man to ease the pain etc, it doesnt work.
If you can do this i think youll find that your over him and ready to move on.
Always try to learn from situations and never forget the lessons.
Good luck
2006-07-11 04:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by willw8andc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youo should talk to him . i mean i trried to leave mii man 1 day ago or two and he asked if we could stilll b friends and i told him no because then i'll never get over him.=( and i want to meet other guys yet im still in love with him very much. but i know if you want to get over som1 then find som1 else that'll have a better chance to hook up with and b happy then crushing on some fool that is moving on ! u need to move on to gurl! i know u wont get over this guy by still talking to him . k hun hope everything works out for the best and get a new man gurrl c who else is waiting out there for u !
2006-07-11 03:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by {{;*$! BIANCA_A.K.A_CARNE !$*;}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby, meet some new guys....try to move on with your life. From reading that it seems like you do have feelings for him still and I know how crushing that can be, especially when they brag about moving on. Hang in there. Get out of your shell and have fun!!
2006-07-11 03:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to start getting over him, would be to stop communicating for now. It helps!
2006-07-11 03:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had advice on this from my big sis...
It happens all the time, and maybe you'll never be able to "move on" but do this; try to date other people, maybe by doing this, you'll find someone you like better and realize that you didn't like him as much as you thought you did.
2006-07-11 03:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by kslice917 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats! U will soon find your true love!
Cuz U had been hurt for so long, Heaven sees it and will give U a great man!!
Just wait for him to come to U!
2006-07-11 03:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lucky♣Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find out please let me know-exactly the same situation!! been apart a year were together 3 years, the love of my life he now has a gf i know he dont feel for her the way he felt for me. good luck anyway hun! sorry i cant help
2006-07-11 08:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋