How do I leave my husband with no money, no job, no place to go, and what happens if he wont let me take my two children?
2006-07-10 19:58:36 · 18 answers · asked by xxluckyxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay a little more to go on. My kids are one and four. I am willing to share custody with him. He is not physically abusive just mentally, and I have fallen out of love for him.
2006-07-10 20:17:52 · update #1
"The fear of the dark unknown, appears to be worse than the hurt" Is why most women (or men) stay in their unhealthy relationships. Please believe me when i say that there is help. I dont know what your situation is, If its unhealthy for you kids then theres shelters. It will be a huge struggle in the beginning, but think of your kids. Is this a good living environment for them? I truly hope it works out for you. Take care :-)
2006-07-10 20:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by evil2innocence 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're in a tough spot, sister!
In times like these, turn to your family or your closest friends - they will help you through this!!! If you're serious about doing this, then you will find a job, and a place to live once you've taken the first step and actually leave your husband - just make sure in your heart that this is the right decision.
Consider this - if your best friend was in your situation, wouldn't you help her with anything and everything? Of course you would, so allow her to do the same for you!!!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-07-11 03:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek the help from family. If your situation is really that bad, they should understand. Start by looking for a job too. We all don't want to work, but without money, we are screwed. Life isn't easy, but stick with it and you will be fine. You are already on the right track by making a change in your life to make you happier.
2006-07-11 03:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by low1sk8er 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why leave? Read 1 Corinthians 7, and 1 Corinthians 13. And beware of lawyers, all they care about is getting you as far from your money as possible. They will deliberately give you advice that will incite the problems in the divorce just so you and your husband get angry and fight, and in fighting it will cost you thousands.
2006-07-11 03:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job, then a lawyer, share custody. Don't leave, go to court and make him leave...NEVER leave. If you leave without your kids he could try and say you abandoned them.. If you leave with the kids..he could say you kidnapped them. Go to court. Do it right. You need to show the courts you can provide for your children as well.
2006-07-11 03:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol dun get a suger papa u need to start looking for a job thats the only way cuz u cant move out to a friend's or relative even if u can u wont be able to take care of ur kids and ur self so find a job thats ur best way to go out of that hell!
2006-07-11 03:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sexy i saw your 360 and if your husben is a biotch yes kick him in the balls get him high and preper your bags because if he is a biotch i have to say i am beter then him i treat womes like if there where my heart because lets say your husben hits you or somthing thats fu.ckt up so i have to say leave him o of the job thing just tell his boss that he is stilling mony and he will fird him with a snap of fingers and with out the mony thing just after you moved away ask for the devorse and with the family judge will tell your husben that he is going to have to give you 50% of what he gets in his job for the children o i didint ment the high thing i was kiding buth sexy take the rest of my idvise because i hope your husben is not a biothc. psd: pez out
2006-07-11 03:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by kurth from nevada 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go to a women's shelter and bring your kids with you. They will help you with a divorce, job, and will help you get on your feet.
They will help you with a place to stay once you get on your feet. The children are just as much yours as they are his. He cannot stop you from taking them. If he tries, tell him you are taking the kids to see their grandma (or to get ice cream, etc...), and just leave.
He'll figure out that you are gone when you don't come back. If he's abusive, you need to get out NOW! And file a restraining order!
Good luck to you!
2006-07-11 03:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg Big problem so your using him that is not good.If you love him stick with it.But if you don't leave he let you keep the 2 children if he is a understanding guy.Money let your kids work you work.Ask a friend to stay a while I bet you have friends to ask.Life will help you.Food where ever you stay they proudly give you food don't worry everything will work out.Just give it time.
Thanks
2006-07-11 03:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a boyfriend, with a job, money, and a place to go. Oh and one that likes kids.
2006-07-11 03:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋