2006-07-10 19:40:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell him that you need some space to think about some things. Slowly put more space between the two of you by not calling back right away, then about a week or two from now tell him that you want to break it off.
2006-07-10 19:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by p_boxter03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is 'fat, lazy and rude', then why did you get with him in the first place? There's no nice way to dump someone. Just be honest and try not to be completely horrible about it.
2006-07-11 04:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah that rude little jerk kick his butt to the crub he gon supply you a complicated. listen gurl you're beatiful and that i guess you've a best parent you do not favor someone like that feeding such negetivity in route of you. Ya guy is think to be your surprising friends no longer your worst enemy or decide. Screw him cuz if he speaking like this he must have low self-worth for himself. and also you recognize what this may also be some ill variety of verbal abuse. And verbal abuse is in simple terms as undesirable or worst than actual abuse. So with that being reported inspite of in case you do not prefer to unload him I propose you've a intense talk with him telling precisely the way you experience and the way it makes you experience even as he says degrading feedback like that to you. I propose he ought to nicely be doing this so that you received't experience pleasing and could no longer prefer to administration different adult men because you question your self nicely worth. he's a foul man or woman. Im certain he has solid features yet of route kindness isn't one in all them. And his mom is like anorexic. So forget that.
2016-10-14 08:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by rattley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This I could understand from a 17-year-old, but at 27, we should each be ready to strike out as mature individuals. Know who you are and give the individual that you are 100% support. Don't let anything or anyone negate you, especially yourself.
2006-07-10 19:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by Michael D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to my husband, there's no "nice" way to dump a guy- it's best to be honest and direct. Try this: "It's been interesting, but I've realized you're not my type. I don't think we should see each other any more. Good luck with whatever life brings you next."
2006-07-10 19:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by craftladyteresa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice about it but FIRM. You don't have to hurt his feelings but just don't let him talk you out of it when he starts playing on your emotions.
Wait! I just re-read your question --you say he's RUDE?!
Well, certainly don't bring yourself down to his level, but maybe focus on the rude and don't mention the fat and lazy. Tell him you just don't feel that your personalities click.
Good luck!
2006-07-10 19:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by the wording of your question, breaking up with him nicely may not be within your realm of expertise. You're 27 years old and you can't figure this out for yourself?
2006-07-10 20:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by Babber420 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and all he wants you to do is suck his d##k, why be nice he'll hate you anyway, tell him the way it is, find a good looking younger man that can kick his a## and tell him that he's your new hookup and dump the fat man. you'll wish you did it sooner
2006-07-10 20:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by henry b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him he is not what u really want. take ur time to explain to him ur feelings. b honest and make sure ur voice is nice and calm. u could explain u want to move on and try someone new. just tell him what u feel and that he can always get someone else that will love him and appreciate him but that person is just not you
2006-07-10 23:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god if ur 27, u should knw by now how to dump a guy nicely...... (there is no way when it comes to a man!!!)
2006-07-10 20:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lauri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋