Please , i dont want any kind of racial argument to start.
But I am a bisexual girl I and I have
a huge thing for African/American women. But for some reason
I can never seem to attract one-I am very cute and petite, and have
no problem attracting guys.
In fact I have trouble getting with ANY girls-
I wonder if it is because i am too shy?
But sometimes I wonder if it is because of
my race? No offense please, i just wonder what they usually
look for. I am alot of fun-I can dance-though probably not
as good as they can LOL.
Everyone is welcome but i would most like to hear
from the women themselves. I also like asian women
as well-and am having the same issues here.
2006-07-10 19:14:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am Bi and I also have a great attraction to Asain women. i ahve been with several and LOVED it. I have also been with several AA women and LOVED THAT as well. I am not shy. if I want someone I go straight up to them and let them know that I am interested. That help alot. Being shy is a touhgt thing to get over but you can do it. Just be more aggressive. Try going to a club or a strip joint (that where I work) it is really easy to pick up any race of girl at one. It is also really easy to get involved in a 3sum as well. This may help you get over you shyness. I know it did me! and now I LOVE them.
2006-07-11 05:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I am a lesbian African American female. I love women of all races, however I have never dated a white woman. More than likely because I have never seen one that I was attracted to that was gay. (I hope you didn't misread that.) Let me explain....
I have been attracted to white women, but the ones I was attracted to have not been gay women.
If you are a little shy maybe you need to work on that first. I love to be out and do things and maybe that "outgoing" trait is something that others look 4 as well. No matter what the race maybe...
2006-07-11 02:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by TayCe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im an Asian girl but sometimes people think Im mix with black like one of them video hoes off puff daddy video or some but anyways I think that you need to open up to use Asian were kinda clueless and shy too and when both of yall are shy then ain't nuttin gonna spark same for the African American girls tell them straight up and don't beat around the bushes with it. So best of Luck with it
Are you annoying or something is that the case too???? just a question
underage maybe???
2006-07-11 03:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Koran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that we (black women) seem like a fetish to you is a bit of a turn off. I'm not bi but if I were I probably wouldnt date you because of your dancing comment ( I am alot of fun-I can dance-though probably notas good as they can LOL.)
Why dont you try being yourself and see us as women, you should get further than what you have been getting.
No disrespect but you asked for opinions.
2006-07-11 20:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, don't think it's a race factor, but who knows? Well, it's probably because your too shy.. I think most African American girls are abit more straight forward? (Not sure) Maybe you can work on being more extroverted and friendly? :) You can do it, you just probably feel abit more intimidated. You don't seem very "out" yet, and that might be one of the reasons. Be yourself, and soon or later, you'll be attracting as just many girls as guys.
As for asian girls..I'm bi, but I havn't met many bi/gay asian girls.. :( *Shrug* I prefer Caucasian girls anyway. It's just so hard in general. If you'd like to discuss further, feel free to YIM me. :)
2006-07-11 02:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by ockristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a straight male and i have a thing for african-american girls too
its easier if you're mexican (like me) or black
white ppl are rejected so fast cuz they are known as uptight wit sticks up their azzes
not my opinion, tho
just act all hard and s***
2006-07-11 02:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im an african american female, straight as an arrow though. I know where you can try to find girls though.... www.craigslist.org
2006-07-11 03:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im white but i love black guys and girls!! u gotta hav confidence dont let anyone run all over u. also if u wanna meet sum black chix go to blackplanet.com....sexiness!!
2006-07-11 14:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me im african american woman dating a white woman so if i can do it so can u
2006-07-11 02:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm both...i've seen some really sexy and cute caucasian but when we have eye to eye contact they always look away fast i don't know why...and best believe my name says it all..show that you are interested
2006-07-11 02:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by artsarejanice.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋