2006-07-10 18:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I will tell him that what he had done is very disappointing. If he still not doing anything, i will break up with him. What's the point of been stuck with some1 who does not care about your feeling?
2006-07-10 19:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the time to decide a course of action. Communication is the key here. you definately need to tell your love that you are disappointed and what you are disappointed about. You also let them know how this makes you feel. Then together, the two of you can come up with a resolution. Just remember to be calm and collected when yall talk, and use i feel statements(i.e. i feel that you arent listening) instead of accusatory statements(i.e. you arent listening, you dont understand you dontwant to listen etc) this helps tremendosly. if the other person feels like they are being attacked they tend to be sarcastic and defensive.
2006-07-11 02:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know that you are disappointed. Then evaluate wether or not it took to much energy to to be involved with the way you was feeling. If it did then you should consider the value of the person that you say you love.
2006-07-11 02:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ashlay D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did they disappoint you on purpose or not? if not ....then if you truly love them with all your heart then you will love them no matter what they do to disappoint you , someday you may need them to be there to love you when you have disappointed them.
2006-07-11 02:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by truegrit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show patience and let you Love shine through. Love sometimes is disapointment, but let all affairs take place in Love, Love never fails.
I guess what I am trying to say is it worth losing the one that you love?
Can you easily forgive them?
2006-07-11 02:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by c g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lower your expectations you have of them. Don't expect them to do something that is out of their natural behavior...don't expect them to cook you dinner if they never cook or put the kids to bed if they usually don't do that. It is reality that people just don't think out of their box unless they are divinely inspired. That's reality. Sorry. When you start thinking out of your box them you'll find little surprises in everyone!
2006-07-11 02:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by tiffanylsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them........there isn't anything you can do to make me stop loving you...........but I am so disappointed.....
2006-07-11 06:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by deed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him/her or ask him/her to rectify the areas you are disappointed with.
2006-07-11 02:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and talk to them about it in a loving way.
2006-07-11 02:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wrote a letter for him
2006-07-11 04:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by jen h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋