If you don't know how to "act" gay. I'm mistaken for a straight guy most of the time.
2006-07-10 18:40:45 · 30 answers · asked by Al V 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm referring to guys I like, but usually don't pay attention cause I don't really stand out much. I "wear hints" like tight shirts sometimes, but still look pretty straight. Man I need a makeover!
2006-07-10 18:53:27 · update #1
cuff their balls and kiss them
2006-07-10 18:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by akshooter 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well do you want everyone to know, or just some special someone? That's a problem. If you can just be yourself, you'll give off the vibes to the right guy. But others may get some inkling of your orientation too. In a fair and just world that would be just fine. I hope you are not in a workplace or a home where being more "out" would jeopardize your well being. For more subtle ideas...maybe just a hint of color in your tie, sexy socks...no plain black ones...and stop talking about your imaginary girlfriend! (ok, kidding about that last one).
In conversation, don't be afraid to mention tv shows or movies that have interested you, while other guys were watching SportsCentre. Defend minorities when they are scorned in jokes. Contribute to orgainizatons like the Human Rights Campaign, and inconspicuously display their logo on a paperweight, pencil cup, coffee mug, or your bumper sticker.
But more than anything, be yourself and be open. Don't reject other gay men out of hand because they aren't your type...maybe their best friend is!
2006-07-11 02:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to act any different, you know? Don't try to be "girly" or "more gay". To be honest, a lot of gay men that I know can tell if even the straightest-looking guy is gay. But if you are trying to get the speacial someone's attention and you think he's not noticing because his "gaydar" isn't working, talk to him and look into his eyes with a coy little smile and maybe a blush. Or with others who don't know, maybe ask them to watch a movie like Brokeback Mountain or Get Real or something like that. They'll know by the end of the film. As for just "looking gay" in passing or seeming like it at least, give the guys the stare. You know the one.
2006-07-10 19:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by The Lady of Shallot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once wore a knee socks with shorts to a local park in knew gay guys hung out in. the socks were super fem so I knew anybody interested would be gay sure inenough a cute gay guy came up to me. The funny thigh is he wanted to know if I had a mini skirt to go with the knee socks
2014-09-20 09:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by mical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to chnage anything about yourself. There are many gay guys who actually come across and look straight. The only thing you need to do is to just tell people that your gay. and that's fine. There's no need to be a girly gay guy.
2006-07-11 09:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realized that your the guy that the straight girls hit on,, this maybe another reason y they hit on you. (answered ur last question 2) Maybe your just not gay enough....
But on to this question,,, maybe the gay guys that you want to know that you are gay,,, maybe you should invite them to a gay function. Or like a gay bar, or throw a small party.
If your not a flamboyant homosexual don't try to be, never convert to what others consider the "norm" rather it's homosexual or heterosexual.
2006-07-10 19:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by TayCe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them and get it over with. are they close friends? Or family? I think the first ones to tell are you family. And everyone else after that. But with so much hatred in the world be careful. I would make sure they do not hate gays. I worry about people who go against the norm.
2006-07-10 18:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them, they won't know unless you tell them straight up, looking gay or talking gay doesn't mean you are gay, being gay is (this sounds creepy) from the heart, not to be judged but the way you look or talk
2006-07-11 07:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by MusicNAnimeLova 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're talking about friends or family, you have to come out. You'll find that many already knew, and hopefully, it won't be a biggie.
If you're talking about the man on the street, you need to let yout glance linger, smile, and say something...even if it's just "Hi!".
2006-07-11 01:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Bobbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act really, really gay, like Big Gay Al on Southpark.
2006-07-10 18:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kokyunage.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just tell them straight out.. Or just make a comment that makes you look gay and when they ask you you can tell them. :) Maybe you can wear something to help indicate your gay?
2006-07-10 18:50:55 · answer #11 · answered by ockristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋