We have been on and off for about 2 years now. The first time we split I broke it off because she is one of those needs attion all the time kind and she finds it through guys she has no friends that are girls just guys and her best friend is a past boyfriend and went back to when I broke up with her. The second time it lasted 9 months and she broke up with me for reasons I have no clue she stoped talking to me and acted like a child bad brake up if you ask me. Now six months later she calls me non stop day night or texting I get at least 9 texts a day and 5 to 7 a night I don't think she sleeps at all... Anyway out of those six months no calls no emails no texts nothing now out of no where is all over me I have a new girlfriend I love more then life shes great but she has her braking point also. kind of putting me in a hard spot with my girlfrind now how can I get her to stop? Or why is she doing this to me? Not going to lie but I still like her but don't love her.
2006-07-10 18:17:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
from what you have written she does sound needy. the most likely reason that she has started again would be that she had another b/f and then they broke up and she is all alone and cant find another b/f and it scares her to be by herself so she is trying to butt back into your life. if you dont want to lose your current g/f you need to tell your ex that you and her are over you have been for a long time you have a new g/f your in love and you dont want to rekindle that relationship.you'll have to tell her firmly or she will keep at it,if that fails try getting your new gal to talk to her that usaully helps.
2006-07-10 18:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly*effect 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's obvious: whomever she dumped you for has now dumped her. She has no man to give her attention and has come running back to you. This is not a broken romantic relationship that will turn into a friendship. She is bad news and will only keep you around until she finds someone else.
Your ex is not putting you in a hard spot; you are putting you in a hard spot. If you love your new girlfriend more than life, then STOP ANSWERING THE PHONE when your ex calls!
Don't answer the phone, read her text messages, or listen to her voice mails. Leave her one message saying that you have a new girlfriend, wish her well and tell her to never contact you again. If you can block her number, do so. If you need to, get a new unlisted number.
Now go thank your new girlfriend for being so patient while you were being a goof and give her a big kiss. Good luck.
2006-07-11 01:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, take the time to call her and let her know that you are not the right one for her. Be nice but firm. Don't just text - stop - or leave me alone.- or something like that. It doesn't work. Don't lie either she will find the truth. Then you will have to deal with anger and obsession. That's not a good combo. If all else fails change your number and move to Siberia..
2006-07-11 01:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number, or just block her. You can do that if you tell your cell provider. She is messing with you right now because she broke up with whoever she has been dating these past six months, and she wants to see how much she can have a hold of you and make you think that she cares about you. If she did she would had not broken up with you in the second try. My advise is change your number or block her. You owe it to the girl you are seeing now, if you care about her.
2006-07-11 01:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by loboman859 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you to tell the old girlfriend to go away and to stop stringing her along and giving her a reason to call you, believing there may still be some hope! YOU need to cut that line!
2006-07-11 01:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her out of you life. She needs mental help she sounds like she is really screwed up. You do not need that their are too many other flowers in the garden she is a weed and you know what they do with weeds.
2006-07-11 01:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is freaking psychotic!
She only wants you when her own relationships fall apart.
Text her and let her know, if she doesn't leave you alone, you will file a restraining order.
That should work.
If it doesn't, go to your local police department and do it!
You don't have to deal with her emotionally unbalanced butt anymore ;-)
2006-07-11 01:26:10 · answer #7 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the reason why she's does that is cuz she expects u to still like her so she probably knows that u going well off w/that other grl so she's going to make your life hell. so yeah tell her to stop or you'll call the cop's or something
2006-07-11 01:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Groovy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u retared? it sounds like shes using u like a wh0re to impres ppl, grow some b@ll$ and stick with what u got u should know from expeirience that the old g/f wont work
2006-07-11 01:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by branmcin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She keeps running back because you leave that door wide open. Time to close it for good with her on the outside.
2006-07-11 01:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋