leave a good job at home to give her space or move in next to her mom and dad what should i do
2006-07-10 18:15:32 · 20 answers · asked by Spudnick8989 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get counseling or get a divorce. If she wants space, let her move next to her mom and dad. Don't leave a good job at home because she wants you to do so. If she wants space, let her find it on her own as opposed to making you make all the acommodations. Good luck.
2006-07-10 18:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by stseukn 5 · 9⤊ 2⤋
It depends on why she is asking in the first place. If youe being home working all the time is crowding her consider taking a little time off and get away for a few days or even building yourself a small office building behind your house or on some nearby property so that you're not home all the time or perhaps moving your job next to the in laws if this space is available and if you are o.k. with them. If that's not why she's asking then you have some serious discussing to do. But from the way you stated your question it sounds as if she just wants a little her time at home sometimes but because you not only live ther but work there as well it's hard for her to ever have any space to breathe and this is uncomfortable for her so she's wanting you help fix the situation.
2006-07-11 01:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by missconduct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. She married you for who you are. If she does not want to be around you, maybe she just needs some personal space. Running back to Mom and Dad is totally not the answer!
She has the option to go shopping or whatever!
You are who you are. Just because you are now married does not give her the right to ask you to change.
If she did not like the situation, she shouldn't have taken it this far.
2006-07-11 01:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to move in next to her parents. Is she still a dependent child or do you need cheap baby sitters? You need to sit down and talk this out some more. Space? Living next to Mom is hardly space for you!
2006-07-11 01:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants more than that.
If you two are having problems, it sounds like you two should BOTH try to come up with a solution to help the situation and not let only one of you tell the other what to do because that doesn't sound like the other person is taking into consideration what the other spouse wants or feels. Or get professional help/counciling from a neutral source - a relationship therapist.
2006-07-11 01:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes not having any time alone in your home can be stressful. Maybe you could do something else outside the home for a little while a couple times a week so she could have a little space.
2006-07-11 01:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either suggest she leaves the house more often while you are working or set up an office outside the house - maybe in your in-laws house? The current set-up is getting on her nerves, so something has to change!
2006-07-11 01:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kazzini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit down and talk to you wife, try to figure out why she wants you to concede so much when it seems like she's not conceding at all!
Why does she need "her space" to begin with? There may be bigger problems here, but the only way you're going to get answers to those problems is by talking to your wife!!!
Good Luck, Bra!
Aloha!
2006-07-11 01:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't she find something to do while your working at home
maybe use one particular room at home as an office and don't speak to her untill your work hours are done
I don't think I would want to move next to mom
2006-07-11 01:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move your job outside of the home. You being home all day is getting on her nerves.
2006-07-11 01:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋