2006-07-10 17:50:04 · 11 answers · asked by HeArtBr0Ken... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not really. If you are married or single, you have to set aside time to focus on your studies and hopefully your mate will be supportive of your goals.
2006-07-10 17:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by sweetLynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, partly yes and partly no. It depends on your relationship. It could make life a LOT easier to have someone there for you when you're stressed with finals... but if you have a bad relationship... or if you're both in school, it poses its own unique challenges as well (ugh, I cooked yesterday, it's your turn! I have a paper due!)
What is the most important thing is whether or not you feel that it is the right time and the right person. If it's the right person, but the wrong timing... just wait a bit. If it's the right time and right person, college can't possibly be harder, unless of course you have children. Wait to have children!
All the best and congratulations.
2006-07-11 00:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by writingnerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would make college easier, because you have someone for emotional support with you all the time. This is especially true for out of state students! I went to college 800 miles away from home and I often wished I had my boyfriend with me to make it easier, and just to have someone dependable and trustworthy nearby. It seems like the whole missing out on partying issue wouldn't be such a problem for married people anyway, because they're probably more mature and aren't into that so much anyway (especially if you're married young).
2006-07-11 02:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Julia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. From personal expierence, and just having a boyfriend, college was really hard, because you want to expierence so much, and sometimes you really can't because your tied now. And then you feel like your missing out.
But on the otherhand, if you make it work through college, you should have a really strong relationship with your spouse. College is a time for growing and finding out who you are all about, and having a companion there through the whole ride can definetly pay off in the long run.
2006-07-11 01:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married with a child and go to college. I think its nice to have the extra at home support and if you have alot of school work you have someone to cook dinner for you or rub your shoulders when your stressed over a paper.
2006-07-18 20:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all. I think in fact that it would be easier as most people in college are "looking for someone" and that aspect would be out of the picture completely. One less thing to worry about. Besides...it's nice to be able to have someone to help and understand at home waiting for you. Go for it! It's just an added support system!
2006-07-11 00:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by azoegirl99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll be challenging. But I have a friend(co-worker) that married at 18, her and her hubby, who is a few years older, moved in together right after she got out of high school, now she works and go to school, and the marriage is healthy. she's 20 now...Good luck!!!
2006-07-11 00:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by kittiekatblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think down the road...in a few years time you may have a great job and can afford that dream home to raise your children in and drive the nice mercedes suv!
2006-07-11 00:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by GTZEVRYTHNG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was married when I went through two years of university and he was going through two years of college.
Notice I say "was".
Guess how it went.
2006-07-11 01:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't have to be that way. I was married in undergraduate school as well as graduate school.
2006-07-11 01:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by homerunhitter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋