I dont have sex often and when i do sometimes i cannot achieve an erection, and when i do it can sometimes go away during sex. Masterbating before sex compounds the problem rather than solving the endurance problem. thinking of something other than sex (like batting averages) adds to the problem also. It is getting to the point where I dont seek out sexual partners anymore because I am ashamed of this problem. Any advice?
2006-07-10 17:02:59 · 7 answers · asked by schnewschnew 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Watching a porn would only shorten the time of sex I already have (around 5 mins). Thats if the sex happened anyway. (Ive tried this before : (
2006-07-10 17:16:16 · update #1
2 of you have suggested E.D. .....what is E.D.?
2006-07-10 17:59:29 · update #2
bummer
I answered a similar question check for "penile dysfunction is driving me bonkers..."
Most of my answer applies to your question too.
Dan the Answers-Man.
2006-07-10 17:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dan S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you have is possibly Erectile Dysfunction. You could go to the Doctor and see what they can possible do to help you.
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This forum has all the answers to your questions and there very friendly. You can search there database for possibly solutions also, since your not the only guy in the world to have a problem with his best friend.
2006-07-11 01:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound strange, but I think part of the problem is the dissapointment from this problem. Instead of focusing on your penis as something that doesn't work and then getting frustrated, I think it might help to focus on something else about sex that you enjoy. Like for me I enjoy oral play and I enjoy a partner that responds to that stimulation. Learn to enjoy and get aroused from something other than penetrating. Arousal isn't just about an erection. Your most potent sexual organ is your mind. Say you do something to your partner that you really like and then get an erection in the middle of it. Treat it as a nice added bonus, it's not the be all and end all of your night. I think once you stop getting down on yourself about what you're not doing you'll find it a little easier to get aroused. Once you get aroused easier it might be easier to get an erection, but either way you're still feeding your confidence and your sex life. Your penis might go from something that dissapoints you to something that gives you pleasure again. Also it doesn't hurt to mention this to your doctor. It might be a symptom of a larger problem.
2006-07-12 18:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by fidowithaspot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you watch porn movies for a while just before you can start your foreplay. This might help out. Try not to watch any sports atleast an hour before you have sex. Just imagine your partner's body to be very lucious. This should help solve half the problem. I also advice you visit your doctor but please avoid Viagra. It has resulted in painful erection after sex and lasts fo hours.
Hope this helps.
2006-07-11 00:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by chinchin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't be ashamed. It hurts your self-confidence. You might have a hormonal problem. If you haven't already, I would see a specialized doctor about this. You might have ED or something.
2006-07-11 00:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie "love,sex, and eating the bones" its not a porno and it comes on one of the movie channels (sho,hbo,cinemax etc) ... you might have the same problem esp if you are still young.
2006-07-12 19:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by biracial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop playing with it so much
2006-07-11 00:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋