2006-07-10 16:59:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look, if you are carrying that baggage for 'many years', the letting go problem is yours. Talk with him about your concern. Your question suggests it was a one-time thing. If so, a resolution to your satisfactory comfort should not be that hard to achieve. Forgetting may not be as important as letting go. NEGATIVE MEMORIES OF SPOUSAL BEHAVIOR IS DESTRUCTIVE OF MARRIAGE. Work toward the goal of honestly letting go of negative past events.
2006-07-10 17:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by homerunhitter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you can't forget what had happened between your hubby and the maid. Have a talk with him to resolved this issue asap.
2006-07-11 00:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems its a problem thats hard to get off your mind and not easy to speak to hubby and thus toturing you?
simple solution is to have a heart to heart talk with him and he's the only one to ease your pain.
you should understand your hubby well enough if there's nothing more to it?
he maybe that type who is innocently playful and socially friendly and easily mistaken for his actions type? enlighten him that his actions with the maid is hurting you indirectly and causing misunderstandings. I did undergo such a situation before and it helps to be in talking terms and discussing about the problem. Hope that helps.
2006-07-11 16:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have enough money for a maid, you should be able to pay a councilor!
2006-07-10 17:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by terrbeary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMMM WRONG PLACE TO ASK THAT QUESTION...IF UVE HAD THAT BOTTLED UP FOR YEARS THEN U NEED TO ASK MORE SOPHISTICATED PEOPLE......LIKE A COUNSELOR
2006-07-10 17:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋