I REALLY like this one guy, and he likes me, and he told me he's gonna ask me out soon. But the problem is, he's really cool, and I'm really shy around him. Whenever I talk to him on the phone, I don't know what to say, because I'm so shy. Can someone PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZ give me advice on how I can get over being so shy, and be able to talk to him!!!
2006-07-10 16:55:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have to feel good about yourself...never think that you aren't as "cool" as him...obviously he must think you are cool, or he wouldn't be talking to you! Just be yourself, and he will either like you or not...if you pretend to be different than you are...it will backfire in the long run...
2006-07-10 16:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by justjaime25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being shy. A lot of guys like it. The more you talk to him the more you will learn about him and there more you can ask him. Just keep asking him questions about himself so that he is doing all the talking. When he asks you questions, be honest and ask his opinion on things. The more you talk the less shy you will graually become. If he likes you, then he likes you because you are shy, or at least it doesnt trouble him. Try not to worry so much about what he is thinking. I can guarantee that he is worrying about stuff as much as you are.
2006-07-10 17:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in the hell is he gonna say that he's gonna ask you out soon! Don't hold your breath. If he wanted you, he'd have done it already. Sorry, I got a little carried away there. Uh, take your time and think of him in his undies. Just kidding. It will take time. I'm shy around new people too. Once you get to know someone and you discover you have things in common, it'll be OK. I don't know about this guy, hon.
2006-07-10 16:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by tamc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very hard thing to get over being shy (been there, done that) seeing as you say he is going to ask you out he must like something about you, so talk to him and find out the stuff that he likes, he'll ask you questions about your likes and dislikes bak, and then you have a conversation going.
2006-07-10 17:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over shyness is to be around people more and talk to them about common interest or something that you find interesting and see what there opinion is on it as fare as this guy goes he likes you cause your you so tell him that your shy and you don't know what to sat to him because of this and then listen to what he has to say or talk to him about something that happened in your day that you thought was funny or interesting to you for then you have a conversation going or ask him how his day went. hope this helps
2006-07-10 17:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stress too much about being shy and all. if he already likes you, he probably doesnt care bout the shy thing. actually he probably really likes that about you. let him take control of conversation for the time being and as time goes by, you will feel more comfortable and open up. trust me.
2006-07-10 17:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should from a Christian persective be looking for a person with the same mindset.Read the Bible to guide you.
2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
2006-07-10 16:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Music is like the best topic in the world, everyone has opinons about it, talk about that, and if he already likes u while ur shy why change that?
2006-07-10 17:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get stoned... LOL Thats a joke.. Ask him questions, What he likes to do, what kind of music he likes to listen to, Play 20 questions with him.. If you truely like him and think there is a relationship possibilities,, ask him questions like would he get mad if you wore your muddy boots to bed, I mean its your right to wear them to bed its your life, you should be able to live it how you want to live it, without having him get all bent out of shape over the things you like to do.. Freedom should be two sided, Is he nice enough that you wouldent want him to change anything about him.... If theres 1 thing that you would want to change about him, then he is not the man for you..
2006-07-10 17:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by ntlgnce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax, talk about your day and ask about his just like you would with anyone else, if you are REALLY nervous make a cheat sheet....a list of things to talk about before he calls, like a funny show you saw, a good movie, somewhere you went, a song you like, things like that, imagine your conversations with other friends and do the same thing. and for each of those you can ask what shows he likes, what movies he likes, what music he likes, one of the most important things is to let him talk and pay attention to what he's saying. people enjoy spending time with other people based on how that person makes them feel about themselves, so basically people like it when you listen to them more than when you talk.
2006-07-10 17:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋