I want to stay with her but she is unsure. We've only been together for 3 months but I can't see myself with anyone else. What should I do??
2006-07-10 16:53:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is going to study in New York, i am living in Perth, Australia. She wants to stay with me, but doesnt want to do anything wrong by me. I want to stay with her but she keeps changing her mind. She thinks i will fall all out of love with her. Im not sure how to get her to make up her mind either way.
2006-07-10 17:07:44 · update #1
If you love her.
2006-07-10 16:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
You don't have to make a decision right now. Since you want to stay with her, see what happens. BUT if you decide you need more, then tell her. Don't play games. that's so immature...and not fair for the other woman. Besides, go visit her wherever she is going. My job requires me to travel outside and inside the US often. Sometimes my boyfriend comes to visit. Sometimes not. But the homecomings are always special!
On the other hand: You've only known her for 3 months? Its still lust. AND if she is unsure about you staying together, maybe you should ask her if she is wanting to date other people.
AND If she is going to jail for 6 months...drop her! Why would you want a criminal to control your future?
2006-07-11 00:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Splendid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? That plays a pretty big factor too. And if she is unsure, that already spells the end to the relationship. She has to want it as much as you, or it won't work.
2006-07-10 23:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by writingnerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why breakup just because she is going out of town is she not coming back then thats a whole other question
2006-07-10 23:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by datajob2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if u were together for longer than 3 months. but i really dont think it would be worth it
2006-07-11 00:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want your relationship to be strong and good, do not let her go, if she will be away for 6 months, go with her, because if you are not with her, she will replace you with another man, whom she will find there
2006-07-11 00:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by misshyong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love her, then wait for her.
2006-07-11 00:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋