okay my bf/ex-bf is on the fence about whether or not to take me back... anyhting i should do? should i be happy, or act miserable? etc.... tips please.
ps rock on.
2006-07-10 16:44:17 · 18 answers · asked by mervelash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okay a lot of you are saying dont let him decide my happiness. perhaps i should clarify: the reason were fighting is becasue of soemthing really big and terrible i did. not cheating, just bad.
so what do i do to make him realize im sorry and to take me back?
2006-07-10 16:50:38 · update #1
You should give him space. The only thing you can really do now is give him reasons to not come back. Be yourself. Be confident. And make yourself better - for you. If he doesn't want you, then you at least spent these days making yourself better for yourself and not for someone who isn't ready for you right now.
2006-07-10 16:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not understand the question. You asked should you be happy or act miserable because he is deciding whether or not to take you back or not. I think you need to find out how you feel about the guy first. But if you like him, I think you should be yourself. Why is he having a time deciding this anyway.
2006-07-10 16:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, sister. Your ex boyfriend is trying to decide to take you back? Did you dump him? Don't ever beg. Too many women have fought to make this a world with equal opportunities for girls like you. If there is any doubt in his mind, then it is his loss. Just remember that boys grow on trees and there are thousands just waiting to be picked by you.
2006-07-10 16:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hun . if you all really clicked and for whatever reason something went wrong . then if he really cared about you he wouldnt have to think about it unless you did something really wrong. my advice to you is that you need to take life as it comes and if you all are meant to be then you will be other wise move on to somthing more better . remember you have to go through all the wrongs to find the right . so be happy in all you chose to do
2006-07-10 16:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,
if he wants you back it will happen. If not it can still happen...sometimes people do things just because they can and also because they dont want to break hearts. Think about why y'all broke up and if you think you guys will be awesome with a second chance then pray and ask God for his help and keep the faith.
2006-07-10 16:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by Just wanna know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is on the fence and cant figure it out then I would tell him to go take a flying ****.Sorry to be so blunt but I would not even deal with it.
2006-07-10 16:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by lbkmo and mak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would continue to live my life as usual. It doesn't matter about your actions or reaction to his decision. He is the one who needs to decide (not you) if he wants you back.
In the meanwhile, don't sit around waiting for his answer. Get out and meet new people, or spend time with friends.
2006-07-10 16:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why decide ur happiness on his decision? step up and tell him do chose right now or you are gone for good...that will get his true feelings out as fear of loss brings out the truth in people.
PS never let a man decide YOUR happiness..that is yours and yours alone to decide
2006-07-10 16:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to get him back. act as though you couldnt care either way. act as though you are happy with how your life is at the moment alone. when he sees you like this, he will want you even more! its the whole thing that guys love what they cant have.
2006-07-10 16:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on for if he is on the fence then you don't need him then again maybe there's more to this story your not saying but if it's on him then leave him and move on for there's more fish in the sea and there's one for you so go fishing.
2006-07-10 17:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋