i've been living with my boyfriend for 2 years and i just bought a place of my own in a different city like 45 min. away. he doesn't want to move with me because he says he can't leave his mom alone without a ride to work but as soon as she gets her drivers licence he will move with me.
2006-07-10 16:41:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So is he maintaining where the two of you lived or did he move in with his mother??? 2 things to consider, 1, if she doesn't have her license by now she probably won't get one, and since it took time to buy your house he should have been preparing her for that. 2. to expect him to move 45 minutes away is big, especially if he will have to commute to work everyday. Did you guys discuss this at all or did you just say guess what I just bought a house 45 minutes away??? I think you should have got his imput before.
2006-07-10 16:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
a mommas boy will always be a pantywaist.you need a real man that wants to be with you all the time.he can tell mommy dearest to look after herself for a change. my god how old is she.what did she do before he got his license. if you need a roommate who can keep you happy look me up. hope this helps
2006-07-10 23:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have enough info to say for sure, but it sounds like his mom still runs the show for him. When she gets her license (which she won't) it will become something else.
2006-07-10 23:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by jdavi44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds legit. Does she have her drivers license, can she get another ride to work. Who took her to work when you were living need them. If he has, then it sounds legit.
2006-07-10 23:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him?? with love comes trust so listen to ur gut and see what that tells you. besides..whats wrong with 45mins?? its not that much of a distance if you love the person
2006-07-10 23:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,i think he's telling the truth,i wouldn't want my mother to have to use public trans or walk either
2006-07-10 23:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, unless he has given you a reason to NOT believe him, you should. It's called TRUST... and every relationship needs trust. Besides, it might be a test!?
2006-07-10 23:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by John Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget your boyfriend - ask his mother if that is the plan. THEN you'll know something.
2006-07-10 23:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely you should. Should he, however, keep coming up with new excuses, then you should start to question his motives.
2006-07-10 23:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. If he doesn't come in time... move on.
2006-07-10 23:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by Meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋