ok, why is it that when guys are between 14 and 18 they are so damn bashful about asking a girl out that it is so obvious they like????? Arggggg!!!!!!!
2006-07-10 16:32:53 · 11 answers · asked by monkeymo1992 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Fear of rejection. This is tough for you to relate to, since you're a woman. Although for many girls, simply not being asked out is the same as rejection.
2006-07-10 16:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all of them are, but I know I was! I wouldn't have gotten anywhere if girls hadn't spoken to me first! Why don't you take the first step? Maybe the guys wonder why the girls are so bashful!
(Of course my answer was true! Ballroom dancing is great! I've done it for fun here, but I'm really quite poor at it! Mum made me take dance when I was young, but I was most interested in cossack dance which I get the basics for at lessons, but pick up more from random people here. Eh, I'm home now in fact...I'm insanely tired, and I have to keep napping as the time difference is by 9 hours! I'm sure I wouldn't have so many admirers with the state I'm in now, but thanks. I look horribly tired!)
2006-07-10 23:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of confidence for me! I found group dates much less stressful at that time of my life. It wasn't until I was in my 20's that I got the confidence to approach a girl I liked!
In fact, I let my one true love slip away. I've regretted this for 20 years. Maria Morris whom I met in Ft. Wayne, Indiana...know that someone out here still loves you & thinks about you & wishes you a happy life.
2006-07-10 23:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at that time boy are between peer groups and are trying to find there place. they tend to be bashful about a lot of thing and there up bringing can have affects on this as well.
2006-07-10 23:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by siddragoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think the girl will automatically put them into a "BAD" pile of thousands of other guys in this world without ever knowing them...kinda just like what your blanket question just did...
2006-07-10 23:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by stonedbat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're generalizing. I'm fifteen, and I have no problem talking to women. I don't, however, because I don't really like other teenagers.
2006-07-10 23:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in my 40s and still have trouble asking women out
2006-07-10 23:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by harleythom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I never had problems asking girls out when I was that age
2006-07-10 23:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it ALL girls, or just YOU? Maybe you're a bizznatch.
2006-07-10 23:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jack K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ashamed
2006-07-10 23:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by macky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋