My mom HATES MY BOYFRIEND!!!
2006-07-10 16:29:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Shes my step-mom and i dont like her very much!! I'm 13
2006-07-10 16:53:12 · update #1
Shes my step-mom and i dont like her very much!! I'm 13
2006-07-10 16:56:35 · update #2
Tabitha 13 is young, but you are not the only one this age who tried sex. The advice you have here from people who encouraged you to lie is bad advice. Tell your Dad if you cannot tell your mom. He may be hurt upset or angry but he will help and will (eventually) understand.
You need a lot of information and you need to be adult about your adult relationship.
The conversation should go ..
er ,, Dad ,,, can I talk to you about something personal ?
ok Tabitha
see ... the other night/afternoon I had sex with that boyfriend mom hates.
freek-me-out Tabitha .. what the HHH were you thinking !! now you know why mom hates him !!!
well Dad, I was thinking I would enjoy it and I did, is it wrong to love?
freek-me-out Tabitha you are only 13 !!!
I know Dad and I need a lot of information on sex now. Where do I go to get it? I also need to find out if I am pregnant.
let me chill out Tabitha ... this is a bit to calm down on .. but yes, I will get you help.
So .. tell and be ready for one shocked parent ... but know that after they calm down they will help, and you need the help.
You need to use condoms no matter how much you trust.
You need to use birth control no matter what.
You need to know that boys tell lies and/or change their minds about girls.
2006-07-10 17:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to tell her? If you are having some sort of medical or birth control problem, that is something you may want to discuss with your mother. If not, would the problem be made worse by telling her? I am not suggesting you keep it a secret, just make sure you make a good decision (i.e. you might want help getting treatment for an STD, but you might not want her to kick you out of the house). If you think telling her may make any problems better, then do so carefully. But if not, you may want to think of another plan.
Also: Your mother may not be extremely strict or religious or something, but I know some are. There are ways to obtain birth control pills or condoms without having to cause more family problems. You could always contact Planned Parenthood, for example. On the other hand, if your mother was extremely strict, you might be worse off if she found that you had such objects on her own.
2006-07-10 23:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your question it is easy to understand your mothers
position. So, now that he has used you, what is your next move?
And should you be with a child, where is the home, parents (That word implies 2), support, and all that you expect from home and family?
Of course, you can go on and become a toilet for the next one that comes along and smiles just long enough to get you out of your under ware!
When will the young females learn that most young (nearly all of them) only think with their LITTLE head! The big one never gets out of the baby crib!
Read it and weep young lady, all over the world, panties down,
babies on the scene, boys gone on to the next one!
By the way, I have been around the world a couple of times, been there, done that.
Wake up and listen to your mother! She did not get old by being dumb!
2006-07-10 23:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you have a close relationship with your mom?If so I would just tell her.My mom had the best advose about things like that And I never regreted telling her the first time I had sex.Moms are pretty cool!
2006-07-10 23:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by lbkmo and mak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all how old are you? Second of all she's going to find out weather you tell her or not. Because she's your mom. So just tell her. Because the first time I had sex with my BF, my mom knew right off the back that I just had sex.
2006-07-10 23:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by pinayprincez17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her. But if you decide not to, you need to bring up birth control. Tell her its to regulate your period if you want. If you dont use the right percautions you may not anly have to tell her that you had sex, but that you have a disease and need money for medications or that shes going to be a grandmother... I gaurentee you that the sex conversation would go over better than that...
2006-07-10 23:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by gtmutang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not tell your step mom, just continue to have sex with him, it is your business right? what does she know or understand anyhow?
2006-07-11 02:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell would you tell her in the first place..also why are you asking strangers about this? you have alottttt of growing up to do
2006-07-10 23:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Megs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her.... break the news to her gently... and reassure her that you used every possible form of birth control (even if u really didnt, but u will the next time.... u better the next time!!)....
2006-07-10 23:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by bk_cutie_luvs_u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. But I would get on birth control.
2006-07-10 23:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋