I have a feeling I'm falling in love with my best freind, and yes i'm a girl and he's a guy. He's a great guy and he's just so nice. He is the best person you can ever ask for. The only problem is.......he's in Mexico and probably has a girlfreind there or even here!! Should i tell him my true feelings about him or should i tell him SQUAT?!?!?!? I really like him and i'm maybe not going to see him for along time!! What should i do??!!!?!?!
-Cutie Patutie
2006-07-10 16:29:00 · 10 answers · asked by Go Getta...♥ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
O.k i called him and he said he had feelings for me too. Well does he ask me out or do I ask him out? HELP
2006-07-10 16:47:16 · update #1
For sure tell him! You dont want to live with the regret of not telling him your feelings! If he's your best friend, he'll tell you the truth about his feelings and totally respect your feelings. Tell him in person if you can! :-)
2006-07-10 16:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by amy17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you let Christ direct you? The best thing for a person seeking a relationship from a Christian perspective is to make sure the other person is of like mind.What you see otherwise is what you will get in the long run.
2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
2006-07-10 16:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very easy for a girl to fall for a guy friend. you trust them, they know you, you might find them attractive. But usually once you start with the romantic stuff, he turns out to be just like all the other guys. My sister has a lot of really hot guy friends, and I've asked why she never dated them. She always says, yuck they're like my brother and besides their friendship means more to me than a relationship.
Take a step back and really think about this first. Is it worth losing your friendship for? Good luck
2006-07-10 16:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just make the first move??? Just tell hime what you feel like. Since he is your best friend, it will much easier to check on the best time to tell it.
2006-07-10 16:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi cutie...everybody feels that their best frend feels that he's the most elligible person...n thats y he is ur best frend..i wud advice u not to go n propose him..in ne case...that may even affect ur frendship...
what u can try is...give him some hints...n if he also loves u he'l let u know soon...
2006-07-10 16:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by aru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel
and let him make his decision.
I hope he feels the same way you do
But, you'll never know if you don't try.
Who knows, he might just like you too
but, is afraid you don't, so hasn't said anything.
I 'm not sure...but, try
Good luck!
2006-07-10 16:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by photoguy1959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out if he has a grlfrend first! if he doesnt, GO FOR IT WOMAN! but if he does, then just be really sweet around him and kind and understanding and funny, but DONT SEEM DESPERATE. let him warm up to ya, and if he likes u he mite break up with his gf. and if he doesnt like u, then....good luck.
2006-07-10 16:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by michie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi were r u if u r close to belize or what your age u can drop a line and invite to chat with me i will console u my email is bracos62@yahoo.com
2006-07-10 16:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by bracos62@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, all guys like it when girls tell them how they feel about you. It makes our job of guessing if they like us a whole lot easier.
2006-07-10 16:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by Pop a Merf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he is soo hott and then be like bye
2006-07-10 16:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋