My bf wants to get laid?

Question

my boyfriend wants to have sex and it will be my 1st and his 2 and i was just wondering if we use a condom then can i still get pregant and is it still losing your V if you use a condom

Answer 1

yes,yes

Answer 2

It is less likely that you will become pregnant if you use a condom, but it can still happen. Not using a condom will drastically increase your chance of conception. Any form of penial penetration into the vaginia resulting in the breaking of the hymen means losing your virginity.

Just my two cents, if you do not know that condoms are not 100% effective at preventing pregnancy, then you are not mature enough to be having sex in the first place. Keep your virginity until you are at a point in your life where should a pregnacy result from the colitus. If you are not ready to deal with motherhood, then you are not ready to have sex. If your boyfriend does not understand this or respect this then he doesnt really care for you and you should dump him and move on.

Answer 3

Hey sweetness, if you want to have sex make sure you are doing it because you want to and not for some pure pressure or some kind of a statement. Sex is not that big of a deal when you get older but you should take it seriously now when you are young. You should use a condom for sex until you are sure you are with the right one. Don't get in any kind of a hurry, there are plenty of things that you can do to show your "love" to someone. Don't get with the wrong one on your first time you will regret it more than a guy will! Good Luck

Answer 4

You will no longer be a virgin even when using a condom. Remember condoms break and you are probablly to young to be thinking about sex anyways. You probablly will not listen to me if I say just wait and have sex, but believe me wait. Sex is only a pleasure when you share it with someone you are truly connected with. Do me a favor and go look up all the sexually transmitted diseases you could possiblly get by having sex and then let me know if you are still interested in the act. Plus, if you start having sex now that means you will probablly keep having it on a regular basis which would then increase your chances of getting a disease. Ok, I will shut up now after I tell you when you have sex with one person and they have had sex with 50 people you are sleeping with every single one of them. Not being harsh just look up the facts

Answer 5

Having sex for the first time condom or no condom still means you are giving yourself to someone and losing your virginity. Condoms are not 100% effective so you can still get pregnant if not careful. Don't have sex if you are unsure. He has been with someone else before and he is only your boyfriend. I would wait to get married if I were you. If you are not ready to face the consequences, then please think about it before you go ahead with it. Also make sure he is STD free, even condoms can't stop STDs. Just because he has been with one person, it doesn't mean he is clean.

Answer 6

Please, please, please wear a condom!
You must first be sure that you are doing this because YOU want to do it not because your bf wants to get some action. It is your body and he has no say over it! Think about what you are doing! There is NO going back once you do it. You will never have your virginity back and there are no second chances for a "special" event to happen with someone you truly care about!
If you decide that you do not value yourself enough and go ahead and have sex, then the next best thing is to be safe. Don't just think about pregnancy because that is only one of the consequences! You have to protect yourself from STD's---Sexually Transmitted Diseases.
Listen. Before you go and have sex with your bf, do some research on STD's and check out some of the nasty viruses, syndromes and deficiencies that STD's come in. Research Chlamydia, Gonnerhia, HIV/AIDS, Syphillis, Genital Herpes and anything else that falls under that category.
You are too young to be worrying about sex so be sure that you think about your needs and not your boyfriends.

Answer 7

Yes and yes. I'm just assuming here that your somewhere between 13 and 16, from the look of your previous questions. If you're asking these kind of questions you should not have sex. To have sex you should know every single thing about it. I was very educated about sex and my body at the time and I was in love. My suggestion: wait until you're in love and you feel you are mature enough if you're anything below 17 I don't think you're mature enough to have sex. I'm 19 so don't think I'm trying to play mom here I've been there I'm speaking from experience. There is an emotional attachment that comes from sex that you may not be able to handle yet. Best of luck

Answer 8

YES u still can get pregant and yes u lose ur virginity even with a condom soo if ur having doubts don't do it wait until ur ready

Answer 9

you sound too young to be having sex. My advice to you is to learn more about your body and sexual reproduction. Second of all you must learn that boys will say a lot of things to get what they want from females. Don't take your virginity lightly and if you feel that this is the right time to do the do..........Please use a condom always. There is way too many diseases floating around in the world. If you use a condom it is still losing your V and you can still get pregnant from using a condom (the chance is very slim though). Think twice about what you are about to do. It is a huge step and it comes along with a lot of stress and emotional feeling.

Answer 10

Does your bf really care for you? If he is looking to just get laid then maybe this is not the guy for you especially if it is your first time. You are obviously not ready if you are asking such questions. You have heard very little of sex,or you are just way too young. The only safe way to ensure both your virginity and from getting pregnant is abstinence. It is your life and your body, but please don't have sex with a guy who is just out to get laid.

Answer 11

Sabrina, I would like to know how long you have been seeing this boy? One of the classic lines of boys is "If you love me you'll have sex with me". Well sweetheart if he respected you he would not be pushing you to have sex. You can get pregnant with any form of birth control. The only way you can't get pregnant is if you don't. You have to respect yourself. If you are asking these questions then to be perfectly honest you are NOT ready for sex. This is a very big step if you are not mentally ready for this don't do it!
Yes even if you use a condom and there is penetration then you have lost your virginity. If you have to ask this question then to be perfectly honest you are not ready for the responsibility of this act.

I want you to think of something for me okay? What happens if you do this and you get pregnant is this boy going to stay with you or will he drop you like a bad habit? Sex is wonderful don't get me wrong, but it is a big commitment. And a baby is forever. Yes there are options if you don't want it but can you deal with your actions. Please think about this before you do anything. Talk to an adult you know you can trust it doesn't have to be a parent just someone who has more experience.