what do you think shouldshe be allowed to carry on lengthy conversation in your presents.
what do you think? it ok, or disrespectfull
2006-07-10 15:58:26 · 8 answers · asked by bx for life 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
here is the whole senario, net this girl a few months ago i knew that she had a child and eveything by a guy who she say lives one of the caribbean island, the thing is i was cool with it, but the problem began when this dude always calls when ever i'm around, but instead of blowing the ***** off she sits there totally into the comversation with the dude like if im not even in the room, what do you think. is that ok, or just disrespectfull
2006-07-10 16:17:25 · update #1
If u really love and respect this girl u would let it go in one ear and out the other...u see i am a single mother and the father is an *** he never wants to see his child.....ok what i am trying to get at is if anything in this world that would make me the happiest is a guy to respect the fact that sometimes i will need to talk to him (its for my baby not me or anyone else) whether u like it or not he is the father of this child........just remember sweetie its u she is w/ not him............but if this girl is talking sweet to him then i would say yes it is disrespectful sit down w/ her and tell her how u feel about her talking to him but don't make her feel as if ur tieing her down it will only make things worst! GOOD LUCK and remember its about the baby not u her or this guy!!!
2006-07-12 20:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by N!cky 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Certainly he doesn't know when you are around. He must really care for his child, and may still care for your girl.
She is with you now, and so, enjoy her company, and her childs. She obviously feels comfortable with you, and that is special. It sounds like she is giving her child the best of both worlds. I think you need to get to know her childs father, so that you understand how he is feeling.
He is not there to watch his child grow, and you are. Maybe you can help him with that information. Do you ever answer the telphone, and it is him?
Maybe he is feeling like you. She is always with you, and you are there when he is having a conversation with her. It works both ways.
She will always have him in her life. Her child is his blood. You are a special person to be there with her, and accept her child into your life. Don't feel like a door-mat. You just need to have your questions answered by her. And, she needs to re-assure you about her feelings for you.
If she has done that, then trust yourself, and her. Enjoy your time together, and don't over think the situation. Go hang with your own Buddies when he calls her. It sounds like torture for you. Great imaginations are not always a virtue. Take care.
2006-07-10 23:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by gypsyworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine because they will always have a connection because they have a child together. It is much better for the child if they have a civil realationship. Plus, the conversation is in your presence so she isn't trying to hide anything. You are just looking for trouble and you may just find it. You knew she had a past, everyone does so get used to it.
2006-07-10 23:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by patticakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If is about the child, it is okay. If it is about other matters like their past or something similar, it is disrespectfull.
2006-07-10 23:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very rude waaaaay past disrespectful.
Get rid of this girl shes a #$%^
Ignore people that cant read
2006-07-11 05:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by CYNDIITA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you rephrase the question so I can understand it?
2006-07-10 23:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what on earth is the question - other than your questionable literacy?
2006-07-10 23:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by excellentneedswork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yoda? Is that you?
2006-07-11 20:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋