I dont know how I should tell my parents that I'm five months pregnant?

Question

I'm five months pregnant and didn't find out untill halfway into my fourth month because I still had my period. My parents are divorced and I dont know how to tell my mom first.

Answer 1

i'm assuming you're not married by the way you asked the question. better just bite the bullet and get it over with because you're about to start showing. tell her and be ready for her to be upset but you will have to stay calm and not get angry or upset. let her be the one who is upset for awhile.

Answer 2

wow i had the same thing happen with my sister and my parents are divorced too if your mom love enough she will understand that mistakes do happen if she doesnt know bye now mom i swear have a sense when it comes to pregnany with their daughters . One day just sit her down and start asking her questions about how she would feel about it and at the right time in the conversation tell her .she will be hurt at first and maybe even be angrey but there is nothing she can do about it now she needs to know she is your mother and you are so far along that you cant hide it any more i am sorry you have to do this it is hard exspecailly if you are young and you have a close realationship with your mom. tell your mom firstthen have your mom tell your dad

Answer 3

Just sit her down and tell her. If she's any mom at all she'll listen. If it was a stupid move, expect some feedback that mioght not be pleasant, but after that, you can figure things out. If it was planned, say so. Good luck. I'm not a freakie, but keep your baby, don't let anyone pressure you against that if you want to keep it, you will never ever forgive yourself. That child will always be yours. Take care.

Answer 4

If you're worried about the look on their faces, write a letter or call them on the phone. Just say, "Mom/Dad, I'm five months pregnant because I slept with So-and So."

Answer 5

i am suprised that they didnt figure it out already. especially if u r 5 months.bring it up casually like hey mom if i ever got pregnant would u be there to support me ? if she says yes then asks u y tell her that u r pregnant. ur mom more than likely will call ur dad and tell him then u wont have to worry about that. try to casually bring up the subject especially if u r a teenager.

Answer 6

Wow that's tough! I have a sister who waited until she was 7 mos. and a cousin who waited until she was 8 mos. it was because they didn't have a relationship with our mothers. I think you should sit your parents down and tell them don't let them find out on their own. The sooner you tell them the better so your not stressed out. Good luck.

Answer 7

youre just going to have to sit down and be honest with her. just tell her. i know its easier said than done, but its better she know because she can give you alot of support. maybe not financial support but she can give you emotional support, which is so important to you right now. be honest, be gentle, and tell her you were scared to tell her. if you are scared about your pregnancy, tell her as much. being vulnerable is okay because she can really be one of your strongest supports during this time. but you should do it sonner rather than later because she also may be able to help you get any pre-natal help you need, and can also help give you advice during this time.

Answer 8

I cant tell you how to do it but they need to know ASAP. They can help you. Dont hold this in any longer because it is not gonna get any better. She cant slap you or do anything to you so let her know. Just tell her your scared and needed to let her know.

Answer 9

Have you started to show yet ?
Which parent can you talk to the easiest, your mom or dad ?
Just sit down with that one & tell them.

Answer 10

Ask her to make you an appointment with an ob/gyn. You NEED to go to the doctor. That's a priority.