To BE OR NOT To BE.....?

Question

im 17 and im still a virgin. is this considered bad in any way?
i feel lonely cuz most girls areound my age arent virgins to begin with
do guys find virgins attractive?

Answer 1

You should feel proud of yourself for not having sex just to 'fit in'. Sex should be reserved for marriage and someday your husband will be honored that you saved yourself for him!

Answer 2

No being a virgin is not a bad thing i think that's great cause it shows you have morals and you have enough respect for your body to wait for the right man or until marriage or whatever it is so you don't need to feel like a loser cause trust me your not missing out on much. I mean yeah sex feels fantanstic but it feels the best when you have someone you love and truly care about. If I were you just wait when you feel ready do not look at other and people and think am i missing out cause your not the best thing to do is wait until your heart tells you it's time for that moment in your life to give it up. To me being a virgin was something special and when it's gone it's gne no turing back. Also if you decide to have sex use protection including condoms cause there are alot of diseases out there you can touch even from oral. I wish I had waited but I can not change the past. But **** happens. But I'm not sure if guys are attractive to virgins but I know some men do like virgins so they can pop you know and some men do not do virgins cause they don't think it's right or something. So just chill and relax and do not let anyone push you into anything cause pressure can be alot and if they do not understand than there not your friends.

Answer 3

Hey I'm 17 and a virgin too! I felt that same way until I met my boyfriend who is also 17 and a virgin. It's not a bad thing, and don't let people make you feel like it is! I have friends that lost their virginity's at 10 and they make fun of me all the time. I had this guy friend who I was very attracted to and he told me the only way he'd be with me is if I had sex with someone else first because he cared about me to much to hurt me by taking my virginity. I almost did, I was half naked with a 22 year old guy I barely knew before I realized it wasn't worth it. Thankfully the guy realized I wasn't ready and he stopped. I've been in some really bad situations like that because of my friends making fun of me. Most guys love virgins, they want to be the first to hit it and quit it. So always remember to do what feels right to you and not what other people are doing!

Answer 4

I was a virgin until the age 18 and I am proud of it. I met a man I loved , got married, and 5 years later we are expecting our first child. Don't be in any hurry. Yes, by the way. I have three of my guy family members in the room right now and they said yes, virgins are attractive because they are not sleeping around like most girls do. They like the thought of not being with someone who has had multiple partners and could have an std or worse.

Answer 5

If guy are not attractive because you are a virgin so what!!! Girl hold on until the time is right like you are completed with High School and College. Most of this girl are probably have unprotected sex and will come up with the some type of STD or become young mother and you want to be like them? Get a grip, most girl wish like myself that we wanted to we was at lest in their 20's to have sex.And to be honest sweet guys like virgins better do the fact the never been touch and the challenge of be her first. So, don't fall for the Bull. What and Same yourself, for the right dude that can wait until your ready.

Answer 6

no, being a virgin is wonderful and amazing, especially when you share that with the right person.

Just remember, the "right" person for you now, most likely will NOT be the right person in the future. You are still young and there is no rush. No one should pressure you into this special moment. ALso, remember don't worry about the girls around you, plus they will probably end up regretting their actions in a few years down the road.

Answer 7

i dont think thats bad...most guys like virgins...also i have a friend who is 20 years old and a virgin...even though i am not and im a guy i find it alot better that the girl i lost it to was also a virgin...it also gives me the better feeling that she hasent done it before and i dont have to worry about other guys that she was with...i lost it when i was 15 1/2 and she was 16 in another month..we are still together to this day...1 year 2 months plus...but dont worry and dont put out..save it for someone your really into...hope i've helped...good luck :)

Answer 8

guys definitely find virgins attractive.

I'll let you in on a secret that... well, most people don't know. most girls/women don't know, anyway. Since it's a secret. Of sorts.

Most guys aren't as confident as they let on - and, in the bedroom, the fear of not being able to please their woman is a big concern. This is why you hear guys constantly bragging about things like size, or duration, or how well they can please - it's a coverup for a very common fear.

So, to placate that fear, many guys look for girls who have less experience than them, and therefore less of a basis on which to judge.

Of course, all that said, you should do whatever it is you want to - have sex with the guy(s) you want to (make sure to use protection, though).
Don't run your life according to what ANYONE else may think.
Do or don't - but just make sure the choice is yours.

Answer 9

girl keep your virginity that is something very precious and you should only give it to the person that you truly love. There are so many diseases out there and you don't want to get any. Girl stay the way you are to hell with those other girls i bet you are the only one that doesn't have a name for their self. You defiantly don't want any unexpected pregnancies and you can never predict the future. You are still young and you have your whole life ahead of you to have sex. Get your education girl!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

My husband was a virgin when we met. You don't know how badly I wish I had waited so he could be the only man I have ever been with, just like I am his only woman. Don't let those other girls fool you, it's nothing to be proud of to have sex young. Someday you are going to have the best sex possible, because it will be with someone you love and who loves you back.

Be proud of yourself!

Answer 11

Don't feel bad. I was a virgin until I was 21.