Premarital sex? can you give me a simple speech about these one...some ideas please...?

Answer 1

Normally this is a question I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole.
But it sounded like a question posed by someone fairly young but serious.
I was hoping for more details but alas it is what it is.
So here goes,..
First I want to tell you that sex obviously dates back to the beginning of man or none of us would be here. Right?
(It always has, and still does take two people to make one).
Thousands of millions of years before the concept of God, religions or a bible, there was the natural exsistance of sex.
And, reguardless of what anybody, and I mean anybody, tells you, there's nothing I can think of, about consentual sex thats a sin, nothing.
Sin is a religious connotation that's meant to invoke feelings of guilt.
Religions, in a sense, promise to bring us closer to a forgiving God (and for the forgiveness of our sins), by having the faith, obeying the laws and beliefs of the church.(And, of course, aiding in it's financial support)
There are however laws. Some laws, like those governing child abuse at all levels and rape, are absolute and nescessary. Some others, posed at a very small, selected, segment of our communities are clearly, or should be, violations of those indiviual's civil rights. Homosexuality as an example. (Some future day, based on today's laws and moral issues, it will appear we are/were living in the dark ages).
Damn near everone and everything has an influence on our sex lives. Particularly parents, church, school and friends and advertizes. It's endless and unavoidable.
But, remember this, your sexuality remains with you your whole life.
It is and always will be your sexuality and can range, at different stages, from being fun, to being capable of a loving and deeply pleasureable experience.
Treat your sexuality with respect. It can and is a strong and powerful emotion. Stronger than love.
Obviously, your going through a period of confusion now.
Get use to it, sex will do that to you most of your adult life.
I know this isn't the simple speech you were hoping for.
I'll try finishing up. I just wanted to give you some idea of what your dealing with.
To make sure before you do anything, you know something about it.
Do not, under any circumstance, have sex for all the wrong reasons. LIke pier pressure from friends or boy friends. That's just plain stupid.
Don't under any curcumstance assume anything, including the professed affections or promises of horney, excited males.
If you decide to have sex, always use protection. Always.
Be sober, inebriated gets you stupid, stupid sex can get you dead(AIDS) or pregnant.
Pregnant and/or abortion can bring premature /severe financial burdens or life long moral delima's.
We are all born with the need and desire to eat, it's a natural instinct. Need and desire being the key words.
Sex is also a born instinct. (Need and desire)
Eating, Urinating, defecating and sex are all natural.Things you either need to do or want. All will naturally let you know when.
Prematial sex is not in itself the question.
The real question is, "what do I do if nature's knocking on my door."
And that,my dear, is something your going to have to decide for yourself.
Good Luck in what ever you decide.

Answer 2

From a non-religious perspective there are many reasons
Premarital sex is not good. For one you always run the risk
of pregnancy, and NO condoms& birth control are not 100% effective
aside from that but Birth Control pills are really bad for you
despite what DOCTORS will say, they force your body into an
unnatural physiological response. I have had many friends become
infertile, and develop PCOS in result to use of these.

Anyways because the people involved run the risk of
pregnancy and STDs i think it actually interferes
with concern to the species. Because it is known
that children in commited marital relationships
fare SOOO much better. There is alot on
child psychology on this matter. Aside from that
but think åbout the emotion jealousy...if sleeping
around is so natural why would we feel jealous
when our significant other does it but, we are doing it.
I will have to find the articles on this.

None the less, premarital sex/sleeping around promotes
unwanted pregnancy, rampant STDs, single parents burdened
with finances, I also think it devalues women but that
is my personal opinion thanks!

Answer 3

When you have sex with someone, in a sense you are having sex with everyone they have had sex with. (Disease)

Having sex takes a relationship to another level. Someone usually gets hurt. It is no longer casual dating.

Pregnancy can ruin a young persons life. Put a stop to many of their goals. Boys can pay child support for 20 years. Girls have some real heavy decisions to make that she might not be old enough to make.

Answer 4

Say something like "Premarital sex is wrong. God intended sex for a man and a woman for when they are married. Our sexuality is a gift from God and we should respect him by waiting til we're married"

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Almost everyone does it in this day and age. I've never been married. I'd be a 27 year old virgin. There's no fun in that. Back in the days before "marriage", it was completely acceptable.

Answer 7

Its wrong, as said in the bible

Sex is a gift from God that should only be shared with one women

Done out of love, and not lust

Answer 8

Live and let live, there's nothing shameful about sex, don't let others judge you if you decide to have sex before marriage.

Answer 9

You'll think that it will be worth it, but it won't. Can't teach wisdom.

Answer 10

dont be a fool, wrap your tool