and even though i know i'am wrong it just seem so right when i met him he is trying to be good to his wife and keep me abay bbut other than being that type of lover i also enjoy being his friend what do i do
2006-07-10 15:12:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its nice to have such a close friendship, but this person is married and you should not interfere in that marriage.
if he loves his wife then he needs to keep you at a distance.
if you cant just be friends, then you need to move on and let him work on his marriage. having you around isnt helping him at all.
2006-07-10 15:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To suppress your feelings, think really deeply about the kind of guy he would be if he left his wife for you. He may be a good friend, but any guy that would do that to his wife doesn't see the true value of marriage and would be likely to continue hurting any other woman he became involved with. He could make you feel like you're the exception and that he'd never do that to you, but I'm sure there was a time when he made his wife feel really special, too.
2006-07-10 22:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Necro 1211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself the heartache....just be friends or stay away from him altogether because if he isn't going to leave his wife for you...why try to break up a happily married couple....or think of it this way,would you like this to happen to you?For your husband to have an affair with his good friend?
If you don't want to get hurt....stop now....if you don't want to end up losing a friend,stop now....it may sound harsh but it's for your own benefit.Especially if he really loves his wife,he should have been the first one to suggest this....think about it.
2006-07-10 22:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do YOU want to be known as a HOMEWRECKER?
You did your thing now its over..
Shame on the BOTH of you.
You can't stay friends..
2006-07-10 22:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋