This boy that i am talking to like goes and "jokes" with other males about them being gay and if they say that they are bi or something he will be like "oh i am one 2" but then when i confront him he is always like "nall girl i didnt do that" "he lying that fool gay" "he just want me" and stuff like that. do you think he is foreal... cause this situation has come up many tims before and.. i dont know what to think. do you think i should keep talking to him as friends? Keep in mind i aint going to lie he is fine and jokes around a lot.
also... when i ask him about it he gets real quiet and all deffensive.
2006-07-10 14:41:14 · 21 answers · asked by babyphatbaby1 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all ... if this person is only a friend, why does it matter what sex they prefer? Are you that shallow? If you are a good friend you should already have a clue as to what they prefer.
2006-07-24 10:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by loony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I think that if the subject of being gay comes up to much and someone is always teasing other people about being gay, he's trying to find out for sure who is....because he's curious.
And then sometimes I just think he's a bully.
So I'm not much help to you here. If I were you I'd tell him that it bothers you that he teases other guys, but if he wants to talk about it, you'll listen. Think that will work? I don't, but it's worth a try.
2006-07-10 14:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is lying maybe it is because he is afraid to admit that he is bi or gay. Be a friend and don't push him. Let him do everything thing in his own time and let him know that you will be there for him no matter what he does. Besides he may just be curious!
2006-07-22 19:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by jeffsilver_25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he/she is a friend then you should know their different looks in different situations, how they react when they weren't telling the truth to someone else. Their actions around you. If none of these different things are present then they are probably telling the truth, Or just ask them about what you think they are lying about and see how they react to the question.
2006-07-11 08:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you become a teenager you will understandand so will he. In the meantime do not mention it to him again. It will embrrass you when you grow up. You will have a guilt trip for the rest of your life. Sit quiety and watch Sesame St.
2006-07-22 14:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a straight man does'nt like to joke about being gay.Every once in a while you see a man joke by playing like a female but not saying he's gay.Then waiting for a response.He IS Gay
2006-07-20 11:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i can tell you are really, really young by the way you form your thoughts.......so
keep it light, and don't get serious....
if you have any doubts move on.....don't form any links to this guy (like a baby) if you have any serious doubts like this...you probably shouldnt even see him one on one....just see him in a group if you must, but my advice is to leave him alone.
2006-07-10 14:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's Gay Girl
he's a Big old Gay Girl hiding in the closet and he using you as a beard.
2006-07-21 07:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by elymendoza1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not be gay, but he might be bi. sounds like most bi guys i know. i wouldnt ask him too much about it, but i also wouldnt consider him for dating if he isnt being streightforward and honest with you in a friendship. just my two cents. ;)
2006-07-10 14:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by bettyboop24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just hasn't come out of the closet yet. Sounds like he's having problems accepting it.
2006-07-10 14:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by c.grinnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋