there is this guy , who asked me out several times, but i always said no.
i told him that i don't like him that way, and that we only can be friends.
now he wants to be friends. he offeres me to hang out with him and his friends. do u think we can be friends? or will it only make it complicated?
2006-07-10 14:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being friends is the best way to get to know someone better, if you cut out sucking the guy's brain. If you feel uncomfortable, say that you are friends but you can't hang out. Actually in real life, there's only one thing separating you and the friendship with this guy, doubt. You think that this guy'll still try to ask you out and if you reject he''ll try to do something to you. Erase this feeling from your vocabulary, take the risk but be careful and hang out with him and his friends. Bring along friends of your own because as they say, the more the merrier. If you still feel doubtful just tell him that you're not willing to befriend him. Take it easy though, men's hearts aren't rock-hard as they claim to be. Make sure you don't be too harsh on him 'coz that can cause pretty big problems. Good luck, my friend!
2006-07-10 14:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Firdaus Yosman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he likes u in that way it may not change...but since he asks you to hang out maybe hangin out will give u a chance to know him better and like him...otherwise....just be friends with him...sometimes just being friends with him might make things harder but try 2 get 2 know him and if not then..jus let it b and forget about him and move on
2006-07-10 21:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by sexylady4ever05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work out. An admirer of mine turned best friend after we met twice ...he brought his new dog along....and I realized that I was falling in love with his dog instead.
You should observe the situation while hanging out with his friends and him...and decide for yourself if it's not working out that way either. Follow your womanly instincts. God equipped you with that sixth sense- make use of it.
2006-07-10 21:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dude wants to get in your pants. He is now attemptiong a different strategy.
If you want to rub bellies with him, go for it. If you don't want that, stay clear of this dude.
TX Guy
2006-07-10 21:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that! Run girl run! He is what we call the "hopefull stalker". Run as fast as you can. He WON"T get past this.
2006-07-10 21:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by boo boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one,sometimes, it will work. Or he could like you more and become a stalker.
2006-07-10 21:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by sweetstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋