how to tell your parents?

Question

how can a young girl tell her parents that she is pregnant, if she tells them, and she know her parents will get SO mad, and then she(pregnant girl)will also be getting mad, then she'll have a great amount of stress upon the baby), how can she tell her parents

Answer 1

you made an adult decision when you had sex. now you need to grow up and act like an adult REGARDLESS of your age! you just need to set down and tell them. and as an adult, you need to respect their reaction. you owe them that much. if i was your mother i would be FERIOUS... so expect that! the real issue here is what decision have you made in regards to this pregnancy? that is an issue that you may also want to discuss at the same time you tell your parents because TRUST ME, they're going to ask!

Answer 2

The only way that works for me, cause I'm an adult, is to be straight forward. Sure they will get mad , hurt, but it would be worse when you lie about it. Lying by omission is just as bad as an outright lie. The pregnant girl has no reason to get mad . If she was not at all worried when she had her legs split wide open, then she shouldn't be worried now. When you do something wrong, prepare yourself for the consequences that will soon follow. If your parents wanted you to get pregnant they would have pimped you out. They want the best for you, but you have ruined that for you and them. Now when the kid is grown he will find out he/she was born a bastard. What a beautiful thing to live with. This girl deserves everthing she gets, she asked for it. No, I don't feel sorry for her. She was probably one of those girls that complained cause they wouldn't let her go out. Well after the baby is born, she still won't be able to go out, screwed again, for a long time. What about the father of the baby? Why doesn't he step up to the plate( Mr. Macho Man), and tell her parents about the baby ? Probably cause he is not yet a man. I hope they get him for statutory rape, I know that's what I would do to him. Honesty from now on is your best policy, since going behind their backs didn't work.

Answer 3

I guess a lot of it depends on how old you are and how well you get along with your parents. I'm a single dad and if that was ever to happen to my daughter she knows she can come to me about anything !! How close are you to either of your parents ? Could you talk with one of them and then break the news to the other ? Is there a family friend you are close to that could help you break the news gently to your parents ? Of course they are going to be mad and upset. That is natural. I know that even tho my child and I are very close I would be upset but we would work things out. Like I said, I think a big part of it will be how old you are. There is a huge amount of difference between being pregnant at 14 versus 17. Also, is the father of the child in the picture and is he going to stand by you ? To a parent that means a lot even if the parents don't like him. If they do like him it might make things easier. Has he told his parents yet and depending on how they react maybe they could talk to your parents. I'm sorry I don't know a sure fire answer for you but I hope it all works out. Have faith in your parents because even when kids mess up, a parents love in unconditional. Good Luck !!

Answer 4

The only way you can do this is just talk to them. I personally have had this happen to me, I was so scared about telling my mum and dad I was pregnant, Yes they did not take it very well but they had to accept it and understand how I felt about things, after all it is not their right to shout at you, it is something they should talk through with you and help you with, if they cannot do that, then well maybe you have to be like me and go it alone, but believe me your never alone, there are people who are always there to help you and support you. Your the important one and so is the baby, so just look forward past all the aggro that your parents may or may not give you. You may be lucky and have a totally different response than you think you will get.
Hope it all turns out ok for you.

Answer 5

Her parents love her. She is already putting stress on the baby buy not telling them. They won't be mad at her (they will be shocked) but they will also be happy that she put her trust in them. Plus if she is going to have the baby they are going to find out sooner or later (and they will be more upset that she didn't tell them to begin with). If she wants their support then she should tell them straight away.

Answer 6

I was 18 when i got pregnant. I thought that they were gonna kill me, kick me out of the house and all that normal things any young girl goes through. But in the end it all ended well. Just dont be afraid to talk to them about anything.

Also i guess it might depend on how old this girl is too...

Answer 7

i was 19 when i got pregnant the first time the father and i had been together since i was 13 and he was 15..i knew i had to tell my mother because i needed her help and for emotional strength as well...she took me with my boyfriend to have the pregnancy test done and when i came out with a smile on my face and tears in my eyes to my astonishment she was not angry..upset hurt whatever goes through a parents mind when there child lets them down is all put aside in a time of need..we didnt tell my father till it was obvious and he was upset but still happy..long story short my 4 year old son is here and now i am 25 and 4 months pregnant and we are all hoping for a girl....long story short you are making it worse on yourself by not telling it will be a lot easier than you think and im sure their reaction will not be as bad as you are expecting....hope this helps

Answer 8

ok calm down sit down with you parents and start off by telling them that you need to talk to them and dont get mad when you tell them just be like im pregnant and at first they will get mad but emotions will be flying everywhere so you need to just try to stay calm during this and no matter what is sed you are the mother and its your choice of wheather to keep the baby or not up to you good luck hun and everything will be alright

Answer 9

She has to accept reality and just tell them. She will endure more stress herself and inflict more stress on the unborn child by trying to hide her burden. They'll get mad and they'll get over it. They'll also be humiliated, disappointed, and sad that their baby isn't a baby anymore. This is all perfectly normal, but everyone will have to get past it. The sooner, the better.

Answer 10

Your going to have stress either way, if you don't tell them you will worrying about telling them. Tell them as soon as possible to get it out there so they can have time to get used to the idea. They are your parents and though they may not be happy with the idea of it, they will not stop loving you.