Its really a long story, so to make it short...Ive had this friend since the 7th grade and we were so much alike. But ever since she got this job sophmore year of high school, I think that shes really changed and were not so alike anymore. But I really want to be her friend (No one likes enimies) But Im one of those people who doesnt drink or party because its something that I dont agree in. But thats what she does...Her friends dont like me at all...should I just give up and not be her friend?
2006-07-10 14:23:24 · 7 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-07-10 14:24:05 · update #1
It's great that you're putting an effort to making friends with your shall we say "slightly-changed-personality-friend". If only there were more of you in this world... Anyway, even though she's changed and has new friends, she couldn't have possibly forget the times you two had together? Try to meet her personally, just the two of you, without her party-friends. Then, talk to her. If she doesn't want to, try to sing your favorite song (both yours and hers), maybe that will jog her memory and realize that you really want to be friends with her again.
Another way is to show her that happiness has its price. Show her what too much alcohol and partying can do and affect her body. Maybe then she'll come to her seneses, stop drinking and start a new life with you as her friend. This may only work if you put heart and soul into it, same goes for the first way above.
Once you've tried and failed time after time, day after day, you might as well find another friend who's better and more understanding. However, do not give up on the friend just now, don't quit on trying to make friends with her, coz winners never quit and quitters never win!
2006-07-10 14:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Firdaus Yosman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant help to get her away from the wrong crowd then its time to find a new friend. dont go down the same road. You can still be her friend and be supportive, especially when she gets in trouble,(because she will) and hopefully she will come around. But whatever you do please don't give in to peer pressure and think that you should join the party to be close to her again. She is on the wrong road.
2006-07-10 22:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Damian A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should stay her friend b'cuz, u want 2 b her friend. who knows u may help her n sooo many ways 1 day. Don't stop b n her friend all b'cuz she made a mistake about the other dummies. When they leave, all she can say is " U had my back. Thanx, & I'm sorry." When the day comes, you'll b soooooooo happy u took my advice.
2006-07-10 21:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tyegirl01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone changes and grows as they get older, and what we knew when we was kids may be a whole different thing when we are adults. So maybe its time to just move on and find a friend your more suited with
2006-07-10 21:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really want to be her friend, u should try to change her, i dont know how but somehow u will figure out a way...trust yourself!
2006-07-10 21:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Haliluya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should try to get a long with her friends and if that doesnt work tell your friend about the problem that you and her friends have.
2006-07-10 22:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let her deside. you dont have to be enemies. but you dont have to be together all the time. give each other space and make new friends.
2006-07-10 21:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋