how to make friends?

Question

how to make friends in highschool?
cause im very very nervous

Answer 1

be approachable. most friendships start out with a simple smile. Join a school club that interests you so you can find others like you.

Answer 2

Basically, just look for people with the same interests as you... You're bound to find all the different cliques amusing, and if that's you - find the group that wanders around and laughs at everyone! That's the best one. Don't be too shy so that you go through high school bored... I've been making that mistake all along, and I'm going to break out this year - senior year should be fun! Don't get too nervous, and remember, there are sooooo many people, there is bound to be a group for you!!

Answer 3

Dont be Nervous! Just be yourself and try and be friends with the right people (people who live you for who you are and people who will treat you nice) If you are kind and nice to others then you will be sure to meet some great friends.But remember highschool doesn't last forever and alot of the people you meet in highschool you will never see again and when you get into real life alot of the people you thought were your friends won't be..

Answer 4

Smile and speak to people whom you see every day. If you see or hear something interesting, you could start a conversation by asking someone near you what they thought of that topic. Try to forget about yourself and observe other people, trying to see things from their angle. Be observant and ask general questions when you need to know what someone else is thinking about or feeling. That will make you more receptive to the feelings and needs of those around you and help you to find the right things to focus on in starting and maintaining a friendship. Practice doing these things and find a way to HELP someone without expecting anything in return for it. This will guarantee friendship with someone very soon. Best wishes to you.

Answer 5

the best way to make friends is to be a friend---truly. Everyone at their core just wants to be loved and accepted. If you are open and friendly then you will make friends. Let it happen naturally. Don't change who you are to "make a friend". High school is a scary time socially but you must remember that deep down, we are all basically the same. Remember, there may be plenty of people who are thinking just like you and looking for you to be nice to them! Don't be a follower, be yourself!

Answer 6

What you have is anxiety. It is a fear of saying or doing the wrong thing especially in public and embarrassing yourself. Relax, find someone you have something in common with and make a little conversation. A sincere compliment is a good way to start a conversation too. Good luck.

Answer 7

Be yourself, that is the best thing you can do. Go up to people and introduce yourself. If they continue on with the conversation ask them what classes they're in. If it goes further ask them what things they like (music, hobbies, movies,......). Sometimes you'll even find they come to you. I should probably know, my sister calls me a friend magnet, I get them even when I don't expect a friend or want one. (Don't let that damper your feelings though). Your teachers can also have a job in it. One of my friends and I were introduced by a teacher. She kept putting us together on assignments and we got to know each other and began talking. You'll find a friend, don't worry.

Answer 8

i was also a real nervous person in high school. from personal experience, as trite and corny as it sounds, just be yourself, (unless you like to run around naked and sing barry manilow songs, then you might want to not be yourself) but otherwise no matter how much they front, everybody else in high school is nervous, from the coolest to the lamest.so be yourself and look for people wiyh similar interests, you'd be suprised how many feel just like you. hope i helped some, good luck.

Answer 9

lol. i had the same problem when i started high school. i was from a tiny private school and didnt know one person when i got to my new school. so when i went into all my classes, i went around and introduced myself to everyone in the class, and i mean everyone. true, some people thought i was a total freak for doing that, but i also met some of my closest friends that day. and also, joining alot of afterschool clubs help. i have made so many friends from doing that. and its perfect, cus usually, theres a club that fits everyone. good luck in high school, freshie!

Answer 10

Be yourself, dont put on a act or they will catch on to you and most don't like that. Be compassionate, caring, and remember you won't win everyone over, however ONE friend is better than a handful of aquaintanences( spell check on that). But remember it could be the friend who you trust so well with your life that turns on you first, they think you will never suspect them of interfering with you other friends of loved ones.