what should i do she thinks i am sleeping with her. but i am not. she is to jealous damn!
2006-07-10 14:06:20 · 6 answers · asked by jasmine1014u 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you have to talk to her, tell her it's not what it seems, make her understand, if your not cheating there's nothing to hold you back right? Good luck.
2006-07-10 14:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, there's only really 2 things you can do
1: you talk to her and convince her that you are ONLY friends. you show her that she has no reason not to trust you, and you make sure that you only visit with your friend when she is able to supervise.
OR 2: you consider whether or not you want to continue a relationship with someone who is that jealous. sometimes that old saying "when you point the finger, you have three pointing back at you" rings true. is it possible that she is cheating on you? not trying to stir up trouble, just curious.
is she more important to you than your friends? does she like any of your friends, or does she just not like this friend? has she ever had any reason to believe that you'd cheat on her, or that this girl is trying to get you to cheat?
sorry that you're going through this, and i hope that everything works out for you. i wish that there was an easy answer to your problem.
good luck to you!!
2006-07-10 21:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Krazie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this with my ex. she was a very insecure person. she was also very closeted and in denial...and because she was...she was also not a very honest person. I think because she was so dishonest with me, she naturally assumed that I was equally dishonest. I never once cheated on her. but then she found a new "friend" of her own. needless to say, I broke up with her and I now have a very open, honest happy relationship.
you were honest with her, that's all you can do. makes me wonder if she has something to hide herself?
2006-07-10 21:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha this reminds me of something i would do. okay well i've been with my gf for like 6 months and i admit, i am jealous. aren't we all? maybe you should've asked her if it was okay for your friend to sleepover. she probably would still be jealous but touched that you thought of her first. or maybe you should've invited them BOTH over. she'll get over it if she really loves you though. :D
2006-07-11 11:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by mary. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gf sounds like a jealous controlling type. u can do better.
2006-07-10 21:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try talking to her... and if she doesnt see how she can be wrong then you need to just let it go...there are plenty of girls in the sea....
2006-07-10 21:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋