what is the first thing you look at? face? style? body? etc
2006-07-10 13:57:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think it's different each time.
If I meet someone and they are just really sweet to everybody, I remember them because so few people are really that nice and open to new people. Maybe if I join a group that is talking then they say something off the wall funny, I get the humor thing in my mind. Others times it's a look or way of being. I look at the eyes too, you can tell a lot if they look you in the eyes. Body lang too.
I also give people a second shot (if they don't piss me off right away) cause sometimes somebody might be shy at first but once you get to know them they turn out to be more thoughtful then people that talk all the time, the thinkers.
2006-07-11 10:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Something has to catch my eye in the first place, or I wouldn't be looking. Maybe her face, since in crowded clubs sometimes that's the first thing I see. Of course, I'm attracted to trim and toned (okay, nice butt and legs), but her mind is always the ultimate attraction. A look may get me looking, but she's got to have it going on behind those peepers to get this girl going.
2006-07-10 23:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by deleted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I notice their eyes and face first. then body and style of the man. Sometimes the actual attraction is just there and hard to describe.
2006-07-10 21:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initial attraction for me begins in the eyes the contact there and moves down to the lips and smile...then to the physical featuresof the face...but its in the eyes, Im taken rght away.
2006-07-11 01:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Wheels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The eyes first. You can tell a person's soul and mood just by looking at their eyes... then the face and even the hair, then the rest follows. ;o)
2006-07-10 23:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the superficial part of me does like to look at the body/face combo, but what will really keep my attention is the way that the carry themselves. if he's laughing, and smiling, looking like he's having a really good time, and if he walks with that strong sexy confidence-i'd follow him anywhere!!
2006-07-10 21:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Krazie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i close my eyes and say this is not happening to me. jk.
face i guess cause that the first thing i notice. unless she has big breast then you cant help notice that. all in all she need to have everything i guess. (aside from the mental and emotional aspect) we all want someone attractive (attractive in our own way of course) but i guess for me it's pretty face long brown hair. nice size breast (c is perfect) wide hips. and.... that's it.
2006-07-10 21:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Orselo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing is that persons actions and ways when the approach you, the face is good but to find the real person you must look underneath all that.
2006-07-10 21:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by jasmine1014u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost always face. Unless there's a specific stand-out feature other than that.
2006-07-10 21:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually check out the eyes and the smile. No smile, and I'm not checking any further.
2006-07-10 21:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋