ok im 6 weeks preganant the guy i made my mind up im going to get an abortion i feel like it doesnt make since to have a child with someone who im not going to be with me and this guy has been together for 2 years and now that im preganant hes always mad at me he never answers his phone for me and he jump on top of me and starting fighting me while im preganant before i got preganant he use to be all in my as@ now that im preganat he mistreats me i think he really trying to drive me to get a abortion because he doesnt want a child what do you think i need advice please help!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-10 13:49:30 · 19 answers · asked by new orleans cutie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
At 6 weeks your baby now has an actual heart beat. It has developed ears and eyes. It also is developing buds that will become arms and legs. The baby also has developed a mouth and most of the organs are formed. This is not a lump of tissue. It is a human being. It is a baby. Millions of women raise children on their own. If you feel that you cannot, then give the baby to someone who will. There are thousands of people of waiting lists to get a baby. Check out these sites
www.abortionalternatives.com
abort73.com
www.mrru.com/abort-pics which has an actual video of the procedure. If you intertionally stop a beating heart....it is murder.
2006-07-10 14:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right about your boyfriend, and you should get as far away from him as you can before he does some very serious damage to you. The question is, can you support this baby without him. I think you don't want an abortion, but see no way out. If you have a job, and can support the baby alone, have the baby if you want to, but keep the father out of its life, since he is determined to kill it. If you have an abortion, just know beforehand that you will probably miss the baby for a very long time to come and will probably have regrets. A child does not need a father present, but it does need love, something you seem to have.
2006-07-10 20:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My son treated his "girlfriend" the same way, except for the physical altercation crap. He was mean, nasty and picked fights constantly with her...I HATED it.
I to this day will never believe that the pregnancy was not intentional, her way of trying to keep him, and I wish to god it would have worked, because I love them both. However, since the beginning of time, this ruse has never worked....you cannot make a man love you because you're pregnant with his kid. History dictates THAT and it won't change for you.
They were "together" on and off the whole pregnancy (mostly off) and she was miserable...but they had the baby in January of this year. And she is the most wonderful thing I have ever seen. I love this baby with all my heart, as do so many others, including her father (my son). They are not together, but are friends and co-parent the best they can. You're probably thinking that no other man will want you with someone else's child, right? WRONG....there are men out there who can fall in love with you AND your child...I know, because it's happening right now to the wonderful girl I'm talking about.
It's bumpy, but you know what? You can do it, and you can be a great mom...the life of the baby is bigger than you, him, and the universe. Please take care of your baby. He or she does not deserve to be tossed out because you're unhappy right now. You have a life to think about that isn't yours...
2006-07-10 21:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by iguana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get an abortion because if you get one and wake up and know that there is no baby you'll feel really bad you did it,trust me 3 of my friends had abortions and are still really sad.Don't get rid of your baby because of the father,find someone else to be with that will love you and your baby(kinda hard these days though)trust me you'll find one.The second reason you shouldn't have a arbortion is because your baby is innocent,he/she has nothing to do with why you wanna get an abortion because of it's father,you're not even doing what's best for your baby,you're doing what's best for you.Please make the right decision,have your baby and find another man.Oh and I'm 8 months pregnant
2006-07-10 21:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a choice YOU have to make don't let him run your life for you abortion doesn't make the problem go away it makes a whole bunch of other problems you will deal with for the rest of your life I had one in 1992 and still have problems to this day do some research www.abortiontv.com is a good place to start I am not trying to tell you one way or the other but you need to make a informed choice know your options and what all is involved first as for the guy loose the looser he isn't much of a man if he cant face his responsibility if you need to talk to someone who has had an abortion feel free to email or Im me
2006-07-10 20:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have the abortion, breakup with this idiot, and move on with your life. Hind site is twenty-twenty, learn from this episode and do not repeat. Until you learn to love and respect yourself, there is no room in your life for a man or a child. Do not ruin the life of an innocent child, by bringing it up in an abusive and chaotic environment.
2006-07-10 21:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never put a man before your child and further more stop having unprotected sex if you cannot deal with what could happen. Give up the baby to a family. It does not make sense to have sex with a man you are not going to marry either. He should not be mad at you for getting pregnant, he played a part of it too. He could have kept it in his pants or wrapped it up. Cannot go scuba diving without the gear, you will drown.
2006-07-11 08:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about the future man or woman that you are carrying inside you. What do you think he or she wants you to do with their life? Have a doctor do a sonogram and show it to your boyfriend. He is probably just a little freaked out. My husband freaked out completely when I got pregnant. Now he is the greatest dad. Give it some time, think it completely through because it is a human life your talking about ending. If you don't think you can give this child the loving home it needs please consider allowing someone to adopt your child. If you are worried about your boyfriend leaving you then he isn't worth keeping.
2006-07-10 21:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get an abortion you will regret it. Your baby is more important than any man, the father or not. Their many more men who can be a better dad for your baby. This is an innocent baby.
Good Luck- Do the right thing...
2006-07-10 20:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by quizqueen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok this guy clearlly is an a$s, sorry sweety , but he is not worth it, if ur suffering because of him, leave him, i mean he is treating u badly , he is an a$s, don't make a fool of urself, ur deserve more than that, and PLEASE, DONT GET AN ABORTION,--- its so sad hearing that a girls want to abort.... aborting is killing.. are you a murder ? i dont think so, ur child has the same right as u or anyone else to live, if u felt responsable enough to have un-save sex, than face the consequences, DON ABORT PLEASE, and dont let this guy treat u like that girl! u deserve better!
2006-07-10 20:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by lola 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋